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| Kitten Fuzz ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() *SLU Supporter* ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | Umm ... really, guys? Really? [Being White In Philly] ![]() Quote:
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| Now, this is a story all about how My life got flipped-turned upside down And I'd like to take a minute Just sit right there I'll tell you how I became the prince of a town called Bel Air In west Philadelphia born and raised On the playground was where I spent most of my days Chillin' out maxin' relaxin' all cool And all shootin some b-ball outside of the school When a couple of guys who were up to no good Started making trouble in my neighborhood I got in one little fight and my mom got scared She said 'You're movin' with your auntie and uncle in Bel Air' I begged and pleaded with her day after day But she packed my suit case and sent me on my way She gave me a kiss and then she gave me my ticket. I put my Walkman on and said, 'I might as well kick it'. First class, yo this is bad Drinking orange juice out of a champagne glass. Is this what the people of Bel-Air living like? Hmmmmm this might be alright. But wait I hear they're prissy, bourgeois, all that Is this the type of place that they just send this cool cat? I don't think so I'll see when I get there I hope they're prepared for the prince of Bel-Air Well, the plane landed and when I came out There was a dude who looked like a cop standing there with my name out I ain't trying to get arrested yet I just got here I sprang with the quickness like lightning, disappeared I whistled for a cab and when it came near The license plate said fresh and it had dice in the mirror If anything I could say that this cab was rare But I thought 'Nah, forget it' - 'Yo, homes to Bel Air' I pulled up to the house about 7 or 8 And I yelled to the cabbie 'Yo homes smell ya later' I looked at my kingdom I was finally there To sit on my throne as the Prince of Bel Air |
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Business: Black Operations Client: Singularity | Sad, from the first two paragraphs you'd posted, I was hoping it would be one of those "White people ignore societal problems when they occur in mostly Black neighborhoods" but sadly that particular angle appears not to have occurred to the author. Also this part: Quote:
![]() But what really bugs me is that he fails to see the larger picture at all: when nobody cares about what happens in mostly-Black neighborhoods, the results are inevitable. When the people who live there are statistics, or characters in a race-based psychodrama, rather than real people, it becomes easy to dismiss problems of crime, poverty, and other social ills that would be top priorities if they were occuring to White people.
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Business: Perception | A couple of weeks ago when I was talking to my dad, he started going on about white male privilege and how "nobody ever gave me stuff and put me in charge" blah blah blah. I was actually really shocked. His only children are daughters, my mother's profession is pretty traditionally male, he's not exactly unfamiliar with sexism. I've heard him talk about comments made to my mother when they were working at RCA, and about an interviewer who told he her he'd thought her name was Allen (rather than Ellen) and wasn't going to take a woman seriously for the job.. he really does (should? I'm not sure I know anymore) have an idea of how sexism works. And when my mom was going on awhile ago about how "one of those conservative assholes" (I think those were her exact words) had made comments about Michelle Obama's butt, he was the one who pointed out that it was actually a racial slur. I know he knows.. and yet, there he was, complaining about what he considers his lack of privilege as a white male. I tried to talk about it a bit, but it's always a tap-dance with him. I'll never really be "permitted" to contradict him without a big blowup. And half the time he seems barely coherent. I'm not sure how much it's the meds and how much it's him only seeing and hearing what he wants or expects to hear. Heck, I can't even tell if he means anything he says. He's also gone on at length about how impressed an "amazed" he is that I can sew competently, and he apparently thinks that this is a great compliment. (Point of that being that I have no idea how to tell what he ever means. He really does seem to believe that he's complimenting me and telling me how highly he thinks of me when he says that.) There does seem to be something bizarre happening up there racially. Maybe it always has, I've always been too far outside anything that might be considered remotely mainstream that I don't know how I'd tell. |
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Business: ANOmations Client: Viewer 2 Blog Entries: 18 | So to sum up the article - it's hard out there for a white man, amirite? |
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| Kitten Fuzz ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() *SLU Supporter* ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | This is a good takedown of the article: [Philly Mag cover: Whites must criticize blacks more | Philadelphia City Paper] Quote:
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My Mood: Client: Exodus | Wow... sounds like some of the white folks in Philly are making my area of the country look cosmo. Thanks Philly, from Alabama. |
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Business: Perception | You're forgetting this very telling bit: Quote:
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Business: Black Operations Client: Singularity | One of the parts that I think was really illuminating was when the author interviewed the guy with the architecture degree. The architect mentioned an encounter with a teenager who asked if he wanted to buy oxycontin. The author's interpretation and the architect's interpretation were very different, it seemed. The architect saw a poor kid who was trying to do whatever he could to hustle some extra money, and compared it to his own experiences of taking jobs he'd thought were beneath him when he couldn't find work. The author of the article, though, couldn't seem to get past the fact that the kid was Black (presumably he believes that there are no White teenage drug dealers in his neighborhood?). There were a few other people who he interviewed who seemed far more...colorblind, I guess, like the mother who wanted to send her kid to the neighborhood school even though it was majority-Black (which I could definitely relate to, since that would describe my schools from 6-12th grade). It was clear that the author had an easier time understanding why other parents wouldn't want to send their kids there than he did in understanding why it wasn't a big deal to the mom he was interviewing, or at least it seemed to me. |
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Business: ANOmations Client: Viewer 2 Blog Entries: 18 | The simpleton responses seem to fall into a couple of common themes when this issue comes up: 1. Why is there Black Entertainment Television / Black History Month / etc... 2. Why can black people say nigger but white people can't? 3. Black people are just as racist against whites. 4. There is no white privilege. Number three and four have some nuance to them at least, however lost it normally is on those saying it. Any group can be racist. The impact is different, but racism is not exclusive to any group. Also, a lot of white privilege is wiped out and trumped by poverty. The poor have it bad across races. Still, there are inherent privileges to being white, with some mitigating factors. We should be free to talk bluntly about race issues, as they are not black and white (pun intended). However, that article is not just biased and useless, the author seems oblivious to it. |
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![]() And there was definitely something valid in the stuff about white people not knowing how to approach race. You're taught that it's not supposed to matter, that you're not supposed to treat people differently based on race, which does end up giving the distinct impression that you're supposed to ignore it altogether. Except that by simply ignoring something that is part of who somebody is, you're already treating them differently. But then he put in the whole "white people are oppressed because we're uncomfortable talking about race" bit and made an utter ass of himself. There is no "right to never encounter anything that makes you uncomfortable" or "right to never discuss any topic that you're not sure exactly how to approach." There's also no "right to always be understood and never have to explain what you meant." In the Villanova story, they act as though the girl who got offended when she thought she was being specifically targeted about the missing blackberry had done something wrong, and ignore the probability -- introduced into the article with the "Vanilla-nova" bit -- that she was feeling like everybody distrusted and disliked her because of her race. It says that the girl who lost her blackberry "assured her that she had Facebooked the whole class" but didn't even offer an "I'm not the only person in the class with a Blackberry, I figured somebody else probably picked it up thinking it was theirs." I suppose that nobody is technically obligated to explain themselves in a situation in which they've given offense, but if you've been misunderstood, it certainly helps. Sure, some people will take offense to something just to put somebody else on the defensive, but most of the time if somebody is unexpectedly offended by something, it's because one or both people misinterpreted something. When it comes to misunderstandings, it's rarely "bad guy" and "good guy." It's "people with feelings and histories." I really hate that whole "I don't have to explain myself" attitude. If you want to interact with people, sometimes you do have to explain yourself, because that's part of interacting with people. | |
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![]() This is the air that white people breathe and that so many completely ignore. If you aren't consciously aware of the advantages of LWW (Living While White), you're well on your way to racism. It may not be the in-your-face, stomp-your-toes type racism that gets the bogey-man label, but it's a perspective that upholds racist institutions by denying they exist. | |
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