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My Mood: ![]() | Why should I care if video games and porn are ruining a generation of guys? CNN.com published an article about a recently released book entitled The Demise of Guys: Why Boys Are Struggling and What We Can Do About It 'The Demise of Guys': How video games and porn are ruining a generation - CNN.com The premise of the book is that a generation of boys addicted to video games and online porn is leading to the decline of the male half of the population. The CNN article cites a lot of anecdotal info without much actual scientific citations. There is a lot of stuff to talk about here and it is worthy of a discussion. The book seems to focus on video game and porn addiction in boys, and blames the usual suspects: parents. Then it apparently tries to discuss the problems this is causing to society, and DAMMIT WE SHOULD DO SOMETHING! Lets be realistic here. Yes, virtually all boys, young men, and even older men are playing video games these days, they are also watching porn. A slightly lesser percentage of girls, young women and even older women are also playing video games and watching porn. This is no doubt having an affect on society, but lets put that to the side for now. Now what percentage of the people playing video games and/or watching porn are actually addicted to it? I'm sure there is research out there, but I'm guessing that the percentage is actually pretty small, like below 3% and probably below 1%. This is of course varies depending on what you would call an addict, but I'd say the usual definition involves engage in an activity to such an extent that it threatens our health. I'd say that is a very small percentage. Because it is a small percentage, the affect of video game/porn addiction is likely negligible, and therefore it cannot be ruining a generation of guys. So lets stop beating around the bush and get to the heart of the issue: Is the prevalence of video games affecting our society, our culture, our relationships, and changing the psychology of young growing minds? Absolutely! Is the easy availability of porn affecting our society, our culture, our relationships, and changing the psychology of young growing minds? Absolutely! And now for the REAL debate question: Is this a bad thing? Considering that every society where video games have become popular has seen a reduction in violent crime; Considering that every society in which internet porn is widespread has seen a reduction in sex crimes; Considering that video games have been designed to make players happy, and that positive psychologists have shown that artificially generated happiness is just as good as genuine happiness. I'd say, the answer is no. But, but, but, video game playing has been demonstrated to reduce the ability to learn in traditional school settings. Then maybe it is about time to dump the traditional school definition of learning. Learning by playing games, works extremely well. But, widespread porn is changing young people's ability to have "healthy" relationships that lead to marriage and family and more children. Time to dump the old fashioned definitions of "healthy" relationships then. Kids today are smarter about sex and relationships than any previous generation. A lot more of them are choosing not to get married, and not have kids, and the ones that are are doing it later in life, and choosing smaller families. Young people are going to have relationships, because that is what young people do, but they have a lot more freedom today. There is no bad here. Video games and the internet is changing society, that is a given. Some change will be good, and inevitably some change will be bad. But the only real threats are to those that do not want society to change. To hell with them! There rant over ![]() |
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My Mood: ![]() SL Join Date: 2/8/2008 Client: Phoenix, Exodus Blog Entries: 5 | There's a difference between not wanting change at all and not wanting change for the worse. Those that are the latter unfairly get lumped in with the former. I started a thread some time back about something like this based off an article that was rather bitter about the negative aspects of gaming and easy access to porn for guys. The Sorry Lives and Confusing Times of Today’s Young Men | Philadelphia Magazine Articles Not gonna lie: it was video games and not therapy that helped me correct my once-atrocious hand-eye coordination as a child. The right kind of games are great learning tools, from hand-eye coordination to fine motor reflexes, multitasking, strategic planning and management, etc. The list goes on. |
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| I wish I had an excuse like that. We didn't have video games or online porn when I was a kid, and I'm still screwed up.
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SL Join Date: September 2006 | It would seem that any solitary activity that absorbs large amounts of time in the formative years runs the risk of diminishing social learning. So, are gaming and online porn more compelling than TV, the last few generation's time waster? Maybe they are, and maybe they will become even more so as technology advances and gets cheaper. Or maybe games will become more social and the trend will reverse. |
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| I cant help but wonder if this hysteria is not caused by the same old tired concept: "people used to controlling the way society works sense that power is diminishing, and are losing their fool minds." In this case though it's not a matter of race, or religion or political affiliation. It's a matter of social preference, in that the standard paradigm of "extroverts first, last and always! Get more face time! Be more social!" push in US culture is faltering as the internet leveled the playing field for introverts to assert their influence, as they were no longer required to adapt and conform to the standard ways of an extroverted social contract. In short- it's not really video games and porn at all, but the changes the internet has brought in a more broad and general sense that are changing things. To which I can only say "about fucking time.", and hope it continues at a pace not unlike a runaway freight train.
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| That's how I always take these kinds of stories, as typical generational "the world is going to hell in a handbasket" grousing. Too much of anything can be bad, and certainly overexposure to porn can lead to unrealistic expectations and feelings of inadequacy, but I think this stuff tends to be less about solid research and more about finger wagging at things the authors disapprove of. Something is always destroying our youth, from rock and roll to calculators. Oddly, civilization seems to go on, none the worse for wear. |
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Business: The Realm of Rygeon Client: Firestorm | It's like in the 1970's film Taxi Driver when the anti-hero finds a nice cultured girl that actually finds him charming and he decides to take her to a porn film on 42nd Street for their date. He honestly didn't mean any harm. But, because of influences in his life, he saw it as mainstream and something everyone did. This is why I would never get my nephew the copy of Grand Theft Auto he wanted. Sitting in a room for hours getting extra points for raping prostitutes and running down nuns is not something I am willing to say I think is harmless fun. The question is "what is sociably acceptable in today's society?" And everyone has their own version of The Answer. I was in a waiting room today and a guy was trying out his pick-up lines on me. Then he reached in his backpack and offered me a DVD of hardcore porn. Of course it was inappropriate. But I can't educate a full grown man about displaying porn to women he just met in waiting rooms. I faked a phone call and escaped. He thought he made a friendly gesture. Just like the character did 30 years ago in Taxi Driver |
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