Aspirin for birth control, who knew? - Page 2 - SLUniverse Forums
Navigation » SLUniverse Forums > Off Topic Discussion > Politics, Religion & Society » Aspirin for birth control, who knew?


Politics, Religion & Society Topics pertaining to politics, religion, philosophy, and social issues. Not for the faint of heart. Also, do not post while drunk, suffering from food poisoning, or while on a low carb diet. You have been warned.

 
Sponsor:
Lionheart Virtual Estate - Experience the Difference!
Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 02-18-2012, 11:26 AM   #26 (permalink)
Nasty Brit
 
Innula Zenovka's Avatar
Wants *things*
 
Join Date: May 2009
Posts: 6,960
SL Join Date: 17 June 2007
Business: Something Spunky
Quote:
Originally Posted by Aribeth Zelin View Post
Women caused sin, didn't you know? Without us, men are pure and godlike in their innocence, and women just ruin everything. /sarcasm
__________________
Innula Zenovka is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-18-2012, 12:38 PM   #27 (permalink)
Senior Member
Invisible
 
Join Date: Sep 2010
Posts: 2,235
Quote:
Originally Posted by Isabeau Imako View Post
Well, I'll admit it, I didn't know. WTF? What kind of joke is that to make? Funny how even if it takes two to have a baby - no excetion - women are always to ones who are blamed. But when it's a politician making this kind of joke, it's 100 x more insulting.
You think that was bad? Listen to his explanation.

Foster Friess Explains Aspirin Contraception Comment - YouTube

In summary (for those who don't want to hear this idiot again):

* People under 70 didn't get the joke
* It's all about "religious liberty"
* Santorum actually supports birth control for third world nations so women ought to feel good about that
* While Santorum has been crossing his legs on the voting floor, Obama has been pushing his agenda on the poor Catholics.

He said the same thing essentially on his blog. He honestly does not understand why people found his joke insulting. He mistakes the sarcastic comments for taking it literally, while those who speak out against it simply 'didn't get the joke'. He didn't even understand the subtlety of Andrea Mitchell's response

Quote:
Originally Posted by Andrea Mitchell
[pause] Sorry. I'm just trying to catch my breath after that last comment.
which I nominate for Facepalm of the Week. In fact, I think I'll add it to my sig.

Even as a SuperPAC he's a fail, btw. The main holders in his fund (70%), Affiliated Managers Group, Inc., are Romney backers because the CEO's wife was AG under Romney when he was governor of Massachusetts. Freiss himself only holds ten percent. My guess is - not for long.
__________________
Quote:
Originally Posted by Andrea Mitchell
[pause] Sorry. I'm just trying to catch my breath after that last comment.

Last edited by Darik; 02-18-2012 at 12:44 PM.
Darik is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-18-2012, 12:50 PM   #28 (permalink)
Rhâââ....
 
Isabeau Imako's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: Montréal
Posts: 6,247
Quote:
Originally Posted by Darik View Post
You think that was bad? Listen to his explanation.

Foster Friess Explains Aspirin Contraception Comment - YouTube

In summary (for those who don't want to hear this idiot again):

* People under 70 didn't get the joke
* It's all about "religious liberty"
* Santorum actually supports birth control for third world nations so women ought to feel good about that
* While Santorum has been crossing his legs on the voting floor, Obama has been pushing his agenda on the poor Catholics.

He said the same thing essentially on his blog. He honestly does not understand why people found his joke insulting. He mistakes the sarcastic comments for taking it literally, while those who speak out against it simply 'didn't get the joke'. He didn't even understand the subtlety of Andrea Mitchell's response



which I nominate for Facepalm of the Week. In fact, I think I'll add it to my sig.

Even as a SuperPAC he's a fail, btw. The main holders in his fund (70%), Affiliated Managers Group, Inc., are Romney backers because the CEO's wife was AG under Romney when he was governor of Massachusetts. Freiss himself only holds ten percent. My guess is - not for long.
So many times, I find journalists drop the ball. Why didn't she ask, there and then, ''I'm not sure I understand, are you saying that women should stop having sex? Should men use this method, too?'' or even ''Do you realize how offensive that remark is to women, including myself, whether it's a joke or not?'' etc

Why, oh why, did she change the subject?
Isabeau Imako is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-18-2012, 12:53 PM   #29 (permalink)
Eternal n00b
Who? Me?
 
Join Date: Dec 2010
Posts: 1,542
My Mood:
Client: Restrained Love Viewer (v2.8.3.5)
Quote:
Originally Posted by Darik View Post

* People under 70 didn't get the joke
Ah. He'll soon turn 72. His generation invented sex and how to avoid the consequences.
Brianna Ort is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-18-2012, 12:57 PM   #30 (permalink)
Senior Member

*SLU Supporter*
 
Eunoli Rain's Avatar
Not eating peas
 
Join Date: Mar 2011
Location: Shady Falls
Posts: 2,028
Quote:
Originally Posted by Isabeau Imako View Post
So many times, I find journalists drop the ball. Why didn't she ask, there and then, ''I'm not sure I understand, are you saying that women should stop having sex? Should men use this method, too?'' or even ''Do you realize how offensive that remark is to women, including myself, whether it's a joke or not?'' etc

Why, oh why, did she change the subject?

A journalist should never -show- that they've taken personal offense to anything. They are supposed to be neutral.

That said, to let misogynist comments to go by unchalleneged in this presidential season as they have not just in this instance, but in many, is simply poor journalism and I can't help but wonder if there's an extreme amount of pressure being applied to not challenge such statements at the threat of losing access or jobs. Its just sad no one is doing so, anyway.
Eunoli Rain is offline   Reply With Quote
1 User Said Thanks:
1 User Disagreed:
Old 02-18-2012, 01:00 PM   #31 (permalink)
Rhâââ....
 
Isabeau Imako's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: Montréal
Posts: 6,247
It's not just in the U.S. I often listen to news reports and am angered by the lack of follow up questions. I certainly can think of a few right away, why can't trained professionals?

Last edited by Isabeau Imako; 02-18-2012 at 01:13 PM. Reason: spelling
Isabeau Imako is offline   Reply With Quote
1 User Agreed:
Old 02-18-2012, 01:06 PM   #32 (permalink)
Persistent Participant
 
Kaimi Kyomoon's Avatar
Kaw-EE-mee
 
Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: Earth, Early 21st century
Posts: 2,667
My Mood:
Business: Kaimi's
Quote:
Originally Posted by Ann Otoole View Post
just curious. how many people here "get it" about holding an aspirin between your knees?
I "got it" 50 years ago, the first time I heard it. It was just as offensive and unfunny then. But more people realize that now.
Kaimi Kyomoon is offline   Reply With Quote
1 User Said Thanks:
Old 02-18-2012, 01:56 PM   #33 (permalink)
Senior Member
Invisible
 
Join Date: Sep 2010
Posts: 2,235
Quote:
Originally Posted by Isabeau Imako View Post
So many times, I find journalists drop the ball. Why didn't she ask, there and then, ''I'm not sure I understand, are you saying that women should stop having sex? Should men use this method, too?'' or even ''Do you realize how offensive that remark is to women, including myself, whether it's a joke or not?'' etc

Why, oh why, did she change the subject?
Quote:
Originally Posted by Eunoli Rain View Post
A journalist should never -show- that they've taken personal offense to anything. They are supposed to be neutral.

That said, to let misogynist comments to go by unchalleneged in this presidential season as they have not just in this instance, but in many, is simply poor journalism
Or maybe it's because she had been slammed for a comment she made about breast cancer when she herself was the story and held back this time to keep from possibly making the same mistake again. Whether it was shock or whether it was hesitance I really don't think turning it into a mouth-off would have been any better. The GOP is proclaiming her stun as a victory. If she responded to that with fire, the GOP would claim victory in a successful trolling. There's no win here.

Journalism used to be about presenting the story, good or bad. Over the last couple of decades it has become so yellowed you can actually tell the political slant of someone by the paper they carry or whether or not they are paying attention to the TV monitor - or what channel the owner of that monitor has playing. Personally, I miss that. I like having the idea of making my own choices. I don't like the idea of choices being made around me based on ratings and subscriptions. I don't like being told what's news, what's important, and where my moral compass should point as if I was incompetent to make those decisions myself.

So on that matter, I have to disagree. I don't need a journalist to tell me what's right and wrong with society. I just need her to show me and I can take it from there.
Darik is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-18-2012, 02:07 PM   #34 (permalink)
Senior Member

*SLU Supporter*
 
Eunoli Rain's Avatar
Not eating peas
 
Join Date: Mar 2011
Location: Shady Falls
Posts: 2,028
A journalist isn't saying what's right and wrong when she follows up an answer like this with "So, you'll go on record that you feel the only valid birth control method for women is abstinence?"

That's not telling anyone what to think. That's getting a candidate to back up their flippant comments with actual...positions.
Eunoli Rain is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-18-2012, 02:13 PM   #35 (permalink)
Senior Member
 
Alazarin's Avatar
Editing Status
 
Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: London
Posts: 440
My Mood:
SL Join Date: 04/04/2005
Quote:
Originally Posted by Ann Otoole View Post
I think all republicans should practice effective birth control before they reach child bearing/impregnating age and never create any offspring. Would help improve the Earth's human DNA pool over time.
Eugenics has a bit of a bad rep. We'll just have to pass on that one.
__________________
Interplanetary Rock'n'Roll
My stuff on SL Marketplace:http://tinyurl.com/3dlu25f
My music on SL Marketplace: http://tinyurl.com/3qe5l5f
Bandcamp: http://alazarinmobius.bandcamp.com/
Alazarin is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-18-2012, 02:18 PM   #36 (permalink)
Dead Guy
 
Asher Bertrand's Avatar
Expert Witless
 
Join Date: Sep 2007
Posts: 9,899
My Mood:
Blog Entries: 2
Quote:
Originally Posted by Eunoli Rain View Post
A journalist should never -show- that they've taken personal offense to anything. They are supposed to be neutral.

That said, to let misogynist comments to go by unchalleneged in this presidential season as they have not just in this instance, but in many, is simply poor journalism and I can't help but wonder if there's an extreme amount of pressure being applied to not challenge such statements at the threat of losing access or jobs. Its just sad no one is doing so, anyway.
To be fair, I think everyone's been caught flat-footed when they hear something come out of left-field. As a journalist, you go into an interview with an idea of what you want to ask and what you want to get out of it, and when something broadsides you like that, it can throw you for a loop. That was true as a print journalist; I can't even imagine how more true that is when you have a camera rolling.
__________________


Ring the bells that still can ring
Forget your perfect offering
There is a crack in everything
That's how the light gets in.
Asher Bertrand is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-18-2012, 02:33 PM   #37 (permalink)
Senior Member
 
Seyla Warden's Avatar
Hidalgo, true and pure.
 
Join Date: Apr 2009
Posts: 4,119
My Mood:
Quote:
Originally Posted by DanielRavenNest View Post
Oh, wait, you said colonize. That's a different matter. If done properly, by sending robots first and building up a self-sustaining infrastructure, it can make sense. If it's a money pit like most NASA manned space programs have been, it's stupid.
Kind of going on a tangent here, but IMO there are things that ned to be done whether they're 'economically feasible' or not. Starting a new space program (and eventually off-world colonies) is one of those things. At the very least it avoids the 'eggs in one basket' problem when the next species-killer rock hits us (assuming we don't nuke ourselves to the stone age before then - Hey another good reason for colonies!).

Quote:
Originally Posted by PepperAnne View Post
Because women totes aren't allowed to have or enjoy sex without suffering and babies. Totes. :|
I'm going to run for office on the platform of people having as much sex as possible just because it's fun.

Quote:
Originally Posted by PepperAnne View Post

I uh. I have that effect on people.
I had to have Plurk explained to me the other day.



Quote:
Originally Posted by Maggiedoll Alter View Post
There's one thing I don't understand with this whole "let any employer decide not to provide insurance that covers birth control" thing.

What employer, besides some religious organizations, would WANT to not cover birth control?
If you get pregnant, your ass gets canned and then they can hire someone with less experience to do your job for less money. PROFIT!
__________________
Quote:
The Republican Party needs to end now. You've fucked everything up. All your representatives are assholes and your primitive ideas are holding our country back. You are all utterly and completely worthless and irredeemable, and you hate human beings, America, and the planet we all share.
Seyla Warden is offline   Reply With Quote
1 User Laughed:
1 User Hugged You:
Old 02-18-2012, 04:07 PM   #38 (permalink)
Pedantic Geek
 
Maggiedoll Alter's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2010
Location: Maryland
Posts: 2,826
My Mood:
SL Join Date: 1/30/2008
Business: Perception
Quote:
Originally Posted by Seyla Warden View Post
If you get pregnant, your ass gets canned and then they can hire someone with less experience to do your job for less money. PROFIT!
That assumes no training costs and off-the-bat productivity. Isn't that not the case for most jobs?

And since having kids isn't something that they can legally fire somebody for, it's not like they can be using that as an excuse to get rid of people and hire cheaper, less experienced workers. I know that doesn't stop them, but it's still nonsensical as a method. They'd have to pretend it was a performance problem just like if they woman hadn't just had a kid, so I don't see how it would make wouldn't make firing her any less dicey.
Maggiedoll Alter is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-18-2012, 04:27 PM   #39 (permalink)
Senior Member
Invisible
 
Join Date: Sep 2010
Posts: 2,235
Quote:
Originally Posted by Eunoli Rain View Post
A journalist isn't saying what's right and wrong when she follows up an answer like this with "So, you'll go on record that you feel the only valid birth control method for women is abstinence?"

That's not telling anyone what to think. That's getting a candidate to back up their flippant comments with actual...positions.
Suppose his answer was "yes, Andrea. I'll go on the record saying that."

Then what?

Is she then expected to debate him on that?
Darik is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-18-2012, 04:39 PM   #40 (permalink)
Senior Member
 
Amity Slade's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2010
Posts: 3,034
Quote:
Originally Posted by Maggiedoll Alter View Post
The political zealotry I get...
I just don't get who all these employers are that want to keep women off of birth control.
I can think of a few more. One is that not every employer is rational and forward-thinking. A five-dollar cost to them today is easier to deal with than potential thousands of dollars of benefit later on. They focus on keeping down today's costs, and deal with tomorrow's consequences another time.

The second is that, unless the additional cost of providing contraception can be extracted from women only, it gets spread out among everyone's insurance. And of course it's just not fair to make a man pay for some sort of women's issue, now is it?
Amity Slade is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-18-2012, 04:43 PM   #41 (permalink)
Senior Member
 
Ann Otoole's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2008
Posts: 16,374
just going to put this out there so maybe people will begin asking questions that need to be asked:

When I first accepted a job with The Walt Disney Company the health insurance was outstanding. $10 copay on prescriptions and top line doctors etc. By the time I left that wretched joke of a cpompany that makes a mockery of gay people the copay was only $25 less than what the prescriptions cost without insurance and the monthly fee for such luxurious insurance had increased by 10 times while the quality of health care went from actual doctors to you had to go to the fucking county health care clinic and sit with the homeless for health care.

Employers don't care. All they want is profit and slaves to work for less.
Ann Otoole is offline   Reply With Quote
1 User Hugged You:
Old 02-18-2012, 07:23 PM   #42 (permalink)
Senior Member

*SLU Supporter*
 
Eunoli Rain's Avatar
Not eating peas
 
Join Date: Mar 2011
Location: Shady Falls
Posts: 2,028
Quote:
Originally Posted by Darik View Post
Suppose his answer was "yes, Andrea. I'll go on the record saying that."

Then what?

Is she then expected to debate him on that?
Nope. She's expected to report that his official position is just what he says it is. Its not for reporters to do more than that. She might ask him if he had details for how he'd implement an abstinence based birth control policy once in the white house, but again - she shouldn't be debating at all.
Eunoli Rain is offline   Reply With Quote
2 Users Agreed:
Old 02-18-2012, 07:37 PM   #43 (permalink)
Senior Member
 
The QuietOne's Avatar
Editing Status
 
Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: State of Confusion
Posts: 396
My Mood:
Quote:
Originally Posted by Maggiedoll Alter View Post
The political zealotry I get...
I just don't get who all these employers are that want to keep women off of birth control.
I rarely do the tin foil hat thing, but in this case I'm full out convinced the Republicans are using the Catholic Church and all the various old male Christian leaders furor to try and push through Congress something much broader that more than anything will help their Wall Street cronies.

Their bill cites not only denying people insurance coverage for items which they have a religious issue with, but moral. Moral? Well any company and any insurance company can claim a moral outrage with all parts. Diabetes? You should have eaten healthier. Mentally handicapped child? You should have done testing prior to birth. Oh, and we don't cover abortions either. Heart Disease? It's a hell of a slippery slope until our already lackluster health insurance is a complete shell of nothingingness.

But if they can essentially use the religious zealots to stir people up to push it through? They'll try. I doubt it will go anywhere..but... *adjusts hat*

ETA: So basically I don't think it's about the birth control for hardly any of them, but they'll use the opening to slash their health care requirements.

Last edited by The QuietOne; 02-18-2012 at 07:46 PM.
The QuietOne is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-18-2012, 08:04 PM   #44 (permalink)
Provincial Sharia-slun
 
Casey Pelous's Avatar
Privacy! 'cause it's SECOND Life, stoopid!
 
Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: USA
Posts: 4,670
My Mood:
SL Join Date: August 21, 2007
Client: Anything But 2
Quote:
Originally Posted by The QuietOne View Post
I rarely do the tin foil hat thing, but in this case I'm full out convinced the Republicans are using the Catholic Church and all the various old male Christian leaders furor to try and push through Congress something much broader that more than anything will help their Wall Street cronies.

Their bill cites not only denying people insurance coverage for items which they have a religious issue with, but moral. Moral? Well any company and any insurance company can claim a moral outrage with all parts. Diabetes? You should have eaten healthier. Mentally handicapped child? You should have done testing prior to birth. Oh, and we don't cover abortions either. Heart Disease? It's a hell of a slippery slope until our already lackluster health insurance is a complete shell of nothingingness.

But if they can essentially use the religious zealots to stir people up to push it through? They'll try. I doubt it will go anywhere..but... *adjusts hat*

ETA: So basically I don't think it's about the birth control for hardly any of them, but they'll use the opening to slash their health care requirements.
If you're not gonna need the whole roll, could I have some of that tinfoil?
__________________
"I am not more than a lossy Human being, and think that we all are equals..." - Wasted Engineer

"Casey, I've already established that you have no idea what you are talking about." - Perphides
Casey Pelous is online now   Reply With Quote
3 Users Hugged You:
Old 02-18-2012, 08:09 PM   #45 (permalink)
Lysistrata Worked
 
Merlynn D's Avatar
Stupid should hurt.
 
Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: Florida
Posts: 440
My Mood:
SL Join Date: Nov. 12, 2006
hmmmm, perhaps women world-wide should start practicing abstinence immediately. I'm thinking some attitudes might change with a quickness...
Merlynn D is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-18-2012, 08:21 PM   #46 (permalink)
Provincial Sharia-slun
 
Casey Pelous's Avatar
Privacy! 'cause it's SECOND Life, stoopid!
 
Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: USA
Posts: 4,670
My Mood:
SL Join Date: August 21, 2007
Client: Anything But 2
Quote:
Originally Posted by Merlynn D View Post
hmmmm, perhaps women world-wide should start practicing abstinence immediately. I'm thinking some attitudes might change with a quickness...
Worked for Lysistrata!
Casey Pelous is online now   Reply With Quote
3 Users Agreed:
Old 02-18-2012, 10:56 PM   #47 (permalink)
Senior Member
Invisible
 
Join Date: Sep 2010
Posts: 2,235
Quote:
Originally Posted by Eunoli Rain View Post
Nope. She's expected to report that his official position is just what he says it is. Its not for reporters to do more than that. She might ask him if he had details for how he'd implement an abstinence based birth control policy once in the white house, but again - she shouldn't be debating at all.
On that I agree. I'm just not understanding how you define poor journalism. Is it because she didn't spotlight the comment or ask for elaboration?
Darik is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-18-2012, 11:19 PM   #48 (permalink)
Senior Member
 
Amity Slade's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2010
Posts: 3,034
Andrea Mitchell is experience and knew exactly what she was doing. She had him saying something stupid, she didn't want to give him a chance to clarify or mitigate, and the result is that the instant media got to embarrass Friess with it quite a while before he got the chance to reconsider or mitigate or whatever he wanted to do to take the edge off.

Asking the follow-up question might have been better journalism. But Andrea Mitchell didn't drop the ball, she did what she meant to do. It's what any experienced lawyer knows in cross-examination- when you actually get a great answer out of the other side's witness, you don't give that witness a chance to back off it, you immediately switch to a new line of questioning.

Last edited by Amity Slade; 02-18-2012 at 11:28 PM.
Amity Slade is offline   Reply With Quote
1 User Agreed:
Old 02-19-2012, 06:51 AM   #49 (permalink)
That Bitch

*SLU Supporter*
 
Void's Avatar
Innocent as far as you know
 
Join Date: Nov 2011
Location: Online
Posts: 6,209
My Mood:
SL Join Date: late 04... that account is deleted now
Quote:
Originally Posted by Maggiedoll Alter View Post
[...]What employer, besides some religious organizations, would WANT to not cover birth control?[...]
A great many of them.... particular male dominated ones that would love the excuse of the expense of pregnancy to factor into hiring decisions.
__________________
- These eyes can do more than see
Quote:
Originally Posted by Cajsa Lilliehook View Post
It's not enough to care about liberty if the only liberty you care about is your own.
Quote:
Originally Posted by Jupiter Firelyte View Post
Why doesn't anyone ever ask, "What is the real meaning of the winter solstice?"
Quote:
Originally Posted by Eboni Khan View Post
Thanks for being passive agressive.
Void is offline   Reply With Quote
1 User Agreed:
Old 02-22-2012, 04:30 PM   #50 (permalink)
I see what you're doing!
 
Sally Rosebud's Avatar
Whatcha lookin' at?
 
Join Date: Feb 2012
Location: Southeast US
Posts: 309
My Mood:
SL Join Date: April 18, 2005
Client: Firestorm
Send a message via Skype™ to Sally Rosebud
Blog for Choice | Tell Anti-Contraception Members of Congress: "I Have a Say!"
Sally Rosebud is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On