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Old 08-05-2017, 03:50 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Dear Men, Being Attracted To Curvy Women Does Not Make You Brave


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Old 08-06-2017, 09:36 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Not going to lie, I thought his post was sweet. And it's a beautiful photo.

In an era of MRAs and PUAs and generally stupid men being the most vocal on social media, it's nice to see a man say, yes, my wife doesn't fit into modern society's version of what is beautiful (I see no problem in acknowledging the shithole we live in) but she's my everything.
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Old 08-06-2017, 10:02 AM   #4 (permalink)
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It was sweet, but still problematical. He objectified her and turned her into just a body, and then basically said all women who don't have dimples, and fat, and fit into those standards of beauty he was made fun of for liking in school are not REAL women.

I'm obviously not a fan of fat shaming, but its not any better to do the reverse, just because he isn't sexually interested in that look.

Sad thing is? He most likely doesn't see where any of what he said IS a problem.
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So many things wrong with his post... The objectification alone makes me cringe.

But, on the other hand, maybe she has some sort of fetish-thing of her own that his otherwise demeaning post was catering to. If so (which I rather doubt), well, good for them.

Just imagine if it was posted from her point of view instead though:

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I love this stud and his curvy junk. As a teenager, I was often teased by my friends for my attraction to guys on the less endowed side, ones whose junk was shorter and curvier, guys that the average (basic) person might refer to as "dickless" or even "flacid." Then, as I grew up and started to educate myself on issues such as fetishism and how the media marginalizes men by portraying a very narrow and very specific standard of desirability (successful, confident, hung) I realized how many people have bought into that lie. For me, there is nothing sexier than this man right here: small feet, uneven cellulite, cute little danglers, etc. His shape and size won't be the one featured on the cover of Men's Fitness but it's the one featured in my life and in my heart. There's nothing sexier to me than a man who is both weak and submissive; this gorgeous guy I married doesn't come close to filling out the front of his jeans and is still the most beautiful one in the room. Guys, rethink what society has told you that you should desire. A real man is not a porn star or a bikini mannequin or a movie character. He's real. he has beautiful stretch marks on his beer gut and cute little dimples in his thigh fat. Guys, don't ever fool yourself by thinking you have to fit a certain mold to be loved and appreciated. There is a someone out there who is going to celebrate you for exactly who you are, someone who will love you like I love my guy, (because it beats dying alone, or so I keep telling myself.)
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It was well-intended, but very poorly thought out.

We are all attracted to a physical type, whether we want to admit it or not. Yes, he goes on about her physical characteristics, but he clearly loves her,though, he probably should extol her non-physical virtues as well. After all, a person is not just the covering, but the whole package.

I wouldn't call him heroic for posting this stuff.
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Old 08-06-2017, 01:55 PM   #7 (permalink)
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I get why people find it problematic. I just don't.

That might because I've alternately had unwelcome sexual attention and been demeaned for just about everything from my weight, height, accent, skin, voice, etc. Or I may just be a hopeless romantic who just sees a dude proud of his girl (and doesn't mind that she is "his" girl).
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I get what you're saying, Deca. I think most people that are laughing aren't laughing at him expressing admiration for his wife, but more at how he has done this (put it out on social media) to show everyone how - his words - he has educated himself on feminism.

Anyhow, if finally realizing first-hand what women have been saying for years, then sharing it to other ''guys'' on Instagram makes a difference, why not. If he and is wife are happy, good for them.
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This letter isn't really a defense of his wife for being "curvy", or defending curvy women in general. It's a defense of himself for liking "curvy" women. Maybe that wasn't the intention, but that was the end product anyways. In that sense it just comes off kind of awkward to me; like writing a letter about how there's totally nothing wrong about liking women with mousy brown hair, or women who choose to wear glasses rather than contacts.
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This letter isn't really a defense of his wife for being "curvy", or defending curvy women in general. It's a defense of himself for liking "curvy" women. Maybe that wasn't the intention, but that was the end product anyways.
I'm okay with that. Men get a lot of pressure NOT to like "curvy" women, and it's refreshing to hear one buck the trend. He's a regular guy, he's not going to pass the purity test for feminism, but this was a basically upbeat post about liking women in an age when other men are screaming abuse at a woman who posts a picture of herself drinking a milkshake.

He's a good guy in my book.
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Why is it every morning I see this I read this as "curry wife"? You would think I would make a mental edit eventually.
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Why is it every morning I see this I read this as "curry wife"? You would think I would make a mental edit eventually.
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[...] to show everyone how - his words - he has educated himself on feminism.

Anyhow, if finally realizing first-hand what women have been saying for years, then sharing it to other ''guys'' on Instagram makes a difference, why not. If he and is wife are happy, good for them.
That's just it. That is the problem. He hasn't educated himself on feminism. If he had he would never have posted those thoughts, much less had them cross his mind.

Yes his post shows his love for his wife but that is all it does. The rest is the same old drivel dressed up in softer phrases.
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Never mind, Wolf. He said something nice, so he's a nice guy. I suppose the bar is so low, that saying even the most obvious thing is pretty great.
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I also needed an excuse so that I could post this tweet from yesterday that is still making me laugh.
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