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Old 08-08-2008, 10:42 AM   #76 (permalink)
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Old 08-08-2008, 10:45 AM   #77 (permalink)
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OOOOO Why didn't I think to ask this before!!???

Does anyone hold any grudges against me? Am I someone's hated enemy?


Ohh please please please please ...
Sorry Jellin. I think you're a huggy, fluffy bunny and I love, love, love you!


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Old 08-08-2008, 10:50 AM   #78 (permalink)
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OOOOO Why didn't I think to ask this before!!???

Does anyone hold any grudges against me? Am I someone's hated enemy?


Ohh please please please please ...
Why don't you take sides with Richie over in Politics and we'll see what we can do about that?
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Old 08-08-2008, 10:59 AM   #79 (permalink)
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I do hold grudges incredibly long, it's the Scorpio.<snip>



However, after the last few months which have been trying to say the least, in rl, I decided life was too short for grudges against stupid people who have no meaning or impact on my life whatsoever.

I've tried really hard and have mostly forgiven and tried to forget everyone who's treated me shittily over the years, including a couple of psycho exes in SL, plus one that's just a total twonk. There's really only one person I will never forgive for the way they treated not only me, but people close to me, and although I'm not a violent person by nature, if I ever met them in rl i'd cheerfully relocate their teeth to the back of their throat.
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Old 08-08-2008, 11:26 AM   #80 (permalink)
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I don't hold grudges. I rarely even have a reason to even be upset with anybody. People are always so kind and generous to me. Because of this, on the rare occasions when I do have a conflict with somebody, it really messes me up. Even the thought that a person doesn't like me is incredibly painful. Changing their opinion of me becomes an almost singular obsession.
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Old 08-08-2008, 11:33 AM   #81 (permalink)
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For instance, for a while Joshua and I were going at it weekly.... when I think back now cant ever remember why.
It's because your sublimating your desire for hot man sex with Josh. Give in and you'll be like a couple of puppies in a pile.
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Old 08-08-2008, 11:33 AM   #82 (permalink)
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Ok not Vertigo. I love her.

The rest of you pretty much suck.
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Old 08-08-2008, 11:51 AM   #84 (permalink)
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Old 08-08-2008, 11:54 AM   #85 (permalink)
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Old 08-08-2008, 12:08 PM   #86 (permalink)
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It all depends for me. I do have some deeply etched grudges against certain people--but they stem from some major F'overs or family situations in RL that merit that long lasting deathgrip

As far as chat rooms, web pages and bulletin boards. Not a lot phases me. I'm as subtle as a sledghammer sometimes and have been known to start something knowing exactly what to expect as far as a reaction from someone who rubs me the wrong way, then kick back and watch the fun.

I am fully aware of how much aggravation this may coause the moderator(s) as I was one myself on quite a few boards in my day. But sometimes ya just gotta do it--especially when the other person is practically begging to be schooled.

I think the type of grudge that I find the toughest to deal with is that borne by another against you for apparently no good reason. I don't dwell on this--but have a hard time with trying to understand the "why" of it since it is that unusual to me.

Maybe they read a post you put up that you thought was hilarious and they took to heart because you managed to hit their one nerve of angst and insecurity dating back to their teenage years? Who knows, cause usually that kind of grudge bearer never gives you the chance to explain or educate them as to where you are coming from.

So my personality being what it is, when I know I have someone like that in my audience, I go outta my way to get to them and pour a little salt in the wound Childish and yet immensely satisfying as well--especially if you can get them to "lose it"

Other than that I'm a WYSIWYG kinda guy. I will let you know where you stand with me and pride myself on honesty, honor and doing the right thing. I'll never pull a two face act on anyone--If I don't like you and you do not mess with me, I'll just leave ya alone, but woe to you if you cross me

I don't hold too many grudges but I do enjoy making people understand the error of their ways--sometimes I even do so nicely
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Old 08-08-2008, 12:38 PM   #87 (permalink)
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Ok not Brig and Vertigo.

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Old 08-08-2008, 12:59 PM   #88 (permalink)
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Ok not Brig and Vertigo.

The rest of you pretty much suck.
You are such a *reproductive organ of the sex of your choice*.
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Old 08-08-2008, 01:30 PM   #89 (permalink)
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You are such a *reproductive organ of the sex of your choice*.
Is this the part of the thread where Luc puts on his vagina av and we all start to feel really awkward and confused?
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Is this the part of the thread where Luc puts on his vagina av and we all start to feel really awkward and confused?
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Old 08-08-2008, 01:39 PM   #91 (permalink)
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Is this the part of the thread where Luc puts on his vagina av and we all start to feel really awkward and confused?
I will hold a grudge against him if he doesn't!
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Old 08-08-2008, 01:46 PM   #92 (permalink)
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I have to admit I hold a grudge against Bard because he totally blows me off every Tuesday night when he should be at PMG. Real life pffffft!!!
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I have to admit I hold a grudge against Bard because he totally blows me off every Tuesday night when he should be at PMG. Real life pffffft!!!
Well, if you're gonna hold a grudge against me, then I'm gonna hold one against you! So there! Nyahh!

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Old 08-08-2008, 01:56 PM   #94 (permalink)
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Well, if you're gonna hold a grudge against me, then I'm gonna hold one against you! So there! Nyahh!

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I can't stand to see a grown man cry

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