Help! Newbie sex - SLUniverse Forums
 
Navigation » SLUniverse Forums > Community Discussion > General SL Discussion » Help! Newbie sex


General SL Discussion Discuss topics related to Second Life

Sponsor:
PDS HomeSecurity Orb
Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 10-28-2008, 09:46 PM   #1 (permalink)
Senior Member
 
Robert Jung's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 907

Awards: 1
Thread Title of the Week 
Newbie sex

attn moderator: if this post belongs somewhere else please let me know where.

Well I joined SL to do things like attend public lectures at Harvard, but then I discovered there is sex in SL ;-)

As a newbie I'm afraid of making a fool of myself. I just know I'll click on the wrong part of the couch or the wrong color pose ball and end up doing something I don't want done to me <g> As it is now, I can barely even sit down on the wall on Help Island - I keep sitting backwards ;-) Sitting backwards could be quite dangerous during sex ...

I don't suppose there is a sex area somewhere in SL where it's safe for virgins to try stuff out - sort of a Sex Help Island where Sex Mentors would give advise <grin>.



And the other thing is penises. I picked up a free one but it's not that great. There are so many penises that do so many different things. How's a guy supposed to choose? . I'd also like to hear from the woman. What do the ladies prefer to see ;-) ?

thanks
Robert Jung is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-28-2008, 09:49 PM   #2 (permalink)
Un United Avatar
 
Brenda Connolly's Avatar
Maybe this year
 
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Jerzee
Posts: 7,631
My Mood:
SLShopper Ads: 2
SL Join Date: Jan 9,2007
Quote:
Originally Posted by robert Jung View Post





And the other thing is penises. I picked up a free one but it's not that great. There are so many penises that do so many different things. How's a guy supposed to choose? . I'd also like to hear from the woman. What do the ladies prefer to see ;-) ?
Clive Owen.
Brenda Connolly is online now   Reply With Quote
Old 10-28-2008, 09:51 PM   #3 (permalink)
Neko-licious™

SLU Supporter
 
Ann Launay's Avatar
Swooping...is...bad...
 
Join Date: Aug 2007
Posts: 8,195
My Mood:
SL Join Date: 8/8/06
Blog Entries: 3

Awards: 1
Thread Title of the Week 
Trent!
__________________

Ann Launay is offline   Reply With Quote
3 Users Laughed:
2 Users Agreed:
Old 10-28-2008, 09:53 PM   #4 (permalink)
Anarch
 
Eirik's Avatar
Give me freedom or give me death!
 
Join Date: Jun 2008
Location: Occupied People's Republic of Flanders
Posts: 3,048
My Mood:
SL Join Date: May 2007
I prefer the ones from Dark Delights. So far they're the only ones i found where you can actually choose between circumsized and uncircumsized. They're kinda costly though. I think I paid about 1200 L$ for it. XCite starter package is only about 750 L$, but IMO it's the worst one of the popular cocks.

As far as where to sit. USUALLY with poseballs: Blue = guy, Pink = girl. And regular poseballs are set so you can't sit backwards on them. You'll usually face the right direction.

Also read this post:

Art of Giving Good Text « Are we not men?
__________________
During times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act.- George Orwell

In a democracy that which is legal is seldom moral, and that which is moral is often illegal. - David Lane

Frangas, non flectas! - I may break but will not bend!
Eirik is offline   Reply With Quote
1 User Said Thanks:
Old 10-28-2008, 09:53 PM   #5 (permalink)
is running in the snow
 
Arilynn's Avatar
Ninja of love
 
Join Date: Jul 2008
Posts: 5,677
My Mood:
SL Join Date: July 3, 2008
Business: Wandering about in a daze. Tabbing out.
Blog Entries: 5

Awards: 1
Special Achievement in LOLZ 
Quote:
Originally Posted by Brenda Connolly View Post
Clive Owen.
Agreed.

GQ offers a class on sex and relationships in SL. And you can always find a friend to help you experiment. I did this for a friend who was dying to have SL sex with someone who had been in SL much longer than he. We both laughed through the whole thing, but he was able to figure some things out, including how to operate his new toys, and he had a succesful time with his SL GF.
Arilynn is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-28-2008, 09:54 PM   #6 (permalink)
Intellectual floozy
 
Cindy Claveau's Avatar
"-ish"
 
Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 13,551
My Mood:
SL Join Date: May, 2005

Awards: 2
Special Achievement in Thread Titling Thread Title of the Week 
Quote:
Originally Posted by robert Jung View Post
attn moderator: if this post belongs somewhere else please let me know where.
This is as good a place as any. Just brace yourself for the lulz and levity this thread will get

Quote:
As a newbie I'm afraid of making a fool of myself. I just know I'll click on the wrong part of the couch or the wrong color pose ball and end up doing something I don't want done to me <g> As it is now, I can barely even sit down on the wall on Help Island - I keep sitting backwards ;-) Sitting backwards could be quite dangerous during sex ...
When you sit on a poseball, you can't sit backwards. It will automatically adjust your avatar position correctly.

Quote:
I don't suppose there is a sex area somewhere in SL where it's safe for virgins to try stuff out - sort of a Sex Help Island where Sex Mentors would give advise <grin>.
No, not really. Places like Neva Naughty are crawling with new residents still in their Linden skins and hair, with commensurate lag. Bukkake Bliss isn't quite as nasty as it sounds, but I'm not sure how much help you'll get in any of these places.

My suggestion: Explore them if you're interested, but before you expect results see if you can find a decent male skin, some prim hair, and something other than the gawdawful wooden freebie newbie cock that's running around. The best place I know of is *drumroll* "Sarah Nerd's Freebie Paradise" - she has about everything you're after there, and it's either free or very very cheap.

If you want to drop some money on stuff, then I suggest getting 2 or 3 nice skin demos (free or 1L, usually) to try on, pick the one you like the best and then shell out 1000L or so.

Quote:
And the other thing is penises. I picked up a free one but it's not that great. There are so many penises that do so many different things. How's a guy supposed to choose? . I'd also like to hear from the woman. What do the ladies prefer to see ;-)
For scripted penises, Xcite used to be "the" equipment but now there's so many that are sculpty and scripted it's a buyer's market. I've seen the "Realasm" model in some malls and I've been very impressed with its realism. I can't attest to how well it works though

The best advice I can give you is not to be too pushy or callous when you approach women. Even if they're in a sex place, they're still human beings and might respond better to humor, sincerity and flattery than just "wanna fuck?"
__________________
“Ideologies separate us. Dreams and anguish bring us together.” - Eugene Ionesco (1909-1994)
Cindy Claveau is online now   Reply With Quote
Old 10-28-2008, 09:55 PM   #7 (permalink)
Neko-licious™

SLU Supporter
 
Ann Launay's Avatar
Swooping...is...bad...
 
Join Date: Aug 2007
Posts: 8,195
My Mood:
SL Join Date: 8/8/06
Blog Entries: 3

Awards: 1
Thread Title of the Week 
Daman's a lady?
Ann Launay is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-28-2008, 09:56 PM   #8 (permalink)
Singer, Jeweler, Manager
 
Rosie Barthelmess's Avatar
Persona non grata
 
Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Central US
Posts: 1,754
My Mood:
SLShopper Ads: 9
SL Join Date: May 6, 2007
Quote:
Originally Posted by Daman View Post
I prefer the ones from Dark Delights. So far they're the only ones i found where you can actually choose between circumsized and uncircumsized. They're kinda costly though. I think I paid about 1200 L$ for it. XCite starter package is only about 750 L$, but IMO it's the worst one of the popular cocks.

As far as where to sit. USUALLY with poseballs: Blue = guy, Pink = girl. And regular poseballs are set so you can't sit backwards on them. You'll usually face the right direction.

Also read this post:

Art of Giving Good Text « Are we not men?
Lookit you all up in hurr at the wee hours of your morning edjumacatin noobs on sex0rz.

How do I sign up for some one on one tutoring?
__________________


Owner/Designer, Sable Rose Jewelry
Gallinas (near The Shelter): http://slurl.com/secondlife/Gallinas/198/11/59

Owner/Manager, Shopatorium At Gallinas Shopping Center and The Patio Live Music Venue

Manager & House DJ, Lounge of Dreams

http://skatoolaki.com/sablerose -- Sable Rose Jewelry's blog.
http://rosiebarthelmess.com-- my blog.

Trout Rated: 7.0
"You are evidence that a woman who is comfortable in her own skin has a definite advantage over those who are not."
Rosie Barthelmess is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-28-2008, 09:58 PM   #9 (permalink)
Anarch
 
Eirik's Avatar
Give me freedom or give me death!
 
Join Date: Jun 2008
Location: Occupied People's Republic of Flanders
Posts: 3,048
My Mood:
SL Join Date: May 2007
Quote:
Originally Posted by Cindy Claveau View Post
"wanna fuck?"
That tactic works best if you're looking for teenage boys acting like women in SL.



Quote:
Lookit you all up in hurr at the wee hours of your morning edjumacatin noobs on sex0rz.
I said earlier today that I wouldn't sleep until Jack gave some answer on the forums. That Linden cunt who made the forum thread promised he'd answer there today to EVERY comment made.
Eirik is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-28-2008, 09:59 PM   #10 (permalink)
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 2,276
An good escort might be able to help also, but would obviously cost you money. Still, this is one situation where it might be worth it. Unfortunately, I don't know where to find good quality escorts...and I'm not just saying that because my girlfriend might be reading this.

But seriously, there are people in SL who have sex for money, and like everything else in life, sometimes when you're new and need help, you need a professional.
Jahar Aabye is offline   Reply With Quote
1 User Laughed:
Old 10-28-2008, 10:01 PM   #11 (permalink)
Anarch
 
Eirik's Avatar
Give me freedom or give me death!
 
Join Date: Jun 2008
Location: Occupied People's Republic of Flanders
Posts: 3,048
My Mood:
SL Join Date: May 2007
Quote:
Originally Posted by Ann Launay View Post
Daman's a lady?
If you're into ladies I'm willing to try it for a night.
Quote:
How do I sign up for some one on one tutoring?
Just get in line.
Eirik is offline   Reply With Quote
1 User Laughed:
Old 10-28-2008, 10:03 PM   #12 (permalink)
Maestra de Sombras
 
IsaDaft Trollop's Avatar
Watches and waits...
 
Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: So. CA
Posts: 1,341
My Mood:
SL Join Date: Feb. 12, 2006
Send a message via Yahoo to IsaDaft Trollop Send a message via Skype™ to IsaDaft Trollop
Quote:
Originally Posted by robert Jung View Post
I'd also like to hear from the woman. What do the ladies prefer to see ;-) ?

thanks
a penis that matches the skin tone.
__________________
Updated 2/15/09
I am giving you an 8.4 on the Official Trout Recreant Slutiness Measuring Device. Congratulations and shame on you!
(from a 7.3)

Quote:
Originally Posted by Cocoanut Koala View Post
If I had weed, a movie, and hot sex waiting for me, too, y'all would be dust in my rear view mirror.
IsaDaft Trollop is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-28-2008, 10:04 PM   #13 (permalink)
Singer, Jeweler, Manager
 
Rosie Barthelmess's Avatar
Persona non grata
 
Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Central US
Posts: 1,754
My Mood:
SLShopper Ads: 9
SL Join Date: May 6, 2007
Quote:
Originally Posted by Daman View Post
If you're into ladies I'm willing to try it for a night.
Just get in line.

PAY NO ATTENTION TO THIS SLEEP DEPRIVED MAN. *shoves*

Rosie Barthelmess is offline   Reply With Quote
3 Users Laughed:
Old 10-28-2008, 10:06 PM   #14 (permalink)
Un United Avatar
 
Brenda Connolly's Avatar
Maybe this year
 
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Jerzee
Posts: 7,631
My Mood:
SLShopper Ads: 2
SL Join Date: Jan 9,2007
BTW, don't get too wrapped up in any performance anxieties regarding SL sex. After all it is just a pixellated cartoon animation, and while some of the poses are good, they still all have a goofy quality to them. SL sexing can be a lot of fun, and even have an emotional appeal, but it shouldn't be taken too seriously.
Brenda Connolly is online now   Reply With Quote
Old 10-28-2008, 10:07 PM   #15 (permalink)
Un United Avatar
 
Brenda Connolly's Avatar
Maybe this year
 
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Jerzee
Posts: 7,631
My Mood:
SLShopper Ads: 2
SL Join Date: Jan 9,2007
Quote:
Originally Posted by IsaDaft Trollop View Post
a penis that matches the skin tone.
It's hard to see the "Texture Missing" sometimes, though
Brenda Connolly is online now   Reply With Quote
Old 10-28-2008, 10:09 PM   #16 (permalink)
Anarch
 
Eirik's Avatar
Give me freedom or give me death!
 
Join Date: Jun 2008
Location: Occupied People's Republic of Flanders
Posts: 3,048
My Mood:
SL Join Date: May 2007
Quote:
Originally Posted by Brenda Connolly View Post
BTW, don't get too wrapped up in any performance anxieties regarding SL sex. After all it is just a pixellated cartoon animation, and while some of the poses are good, they still all have a goofy quality to them. SL sexing can be a lot of fun, and even have an emotional appeal, but it shouldn't be taken too seriously.
Agreed. It's important to remember you're not really screwing the goddess on your screen.

You're in reality fucking your dirty old hand (which you as a guy probably didn't wash after your last bathroom visit), and shooting your load all over your keyboard.

Again, welcome to SL.
Eirik is offline   Reply With Quote
1 User Groaned:
1 User Agreed:
Old 10-28-2008, 10:13 PM   #17 (permalink)
Is a bastage!
 
Macphisto Angelus's Avatar
It puts the lotion on it's skin!!
 
Join Date: May 2008
Location: Cali
Posts: 3,066
My Mood:
SL Join Date: 10-21-2004
Go to Sarah Nerd's Freebie paradise. Grab the freebie johnson she has there, IM Sarah and tell her I said she would help you out. She has trained thousands of newbies with her freebie johnson and wicked keyboard antics. An hour with her and you will be as experienced as any SL gigolo.

Go on.. IM her. She loves that.













*I am going to die for this*
__________________
If life is just a joke, why aren't we laughing?



Macphisto Angelus is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-28-2008, 10:15 PM   #18 (permalink)
Neko-licious™

SLU Supporter
 
Ann Launay's Avatar
Swooping...is...bad...
 
Join Date: Aug 2007
Posts: 8,195
My Mood:
SL Join Date: 8/8/06
Blog Entries: 3

Awards: 1
Thread Title of the Week 
Quote:
Originally Posted by IsaDaft Trollop View Post
a penis that matches the skin tone.
And isn't grotesquely oversized.

But seriously, good cyber is more about what's between your ears and your ability to convey those thoughts to your partner than what your avi has between his thighs.
Ann Launay is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-28-2008, 10:16 PM   #19 (permalink)
Un United Avatar
 
Brenda Connolly's Avatar
Maybe this year
 
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Jerzee
Posts: 7,631
My Mood:
SLShopper Ads: 2
SL Join Date: Jan 9,2007
Quote:
Originally Posted by Daman View Post
Agreed. It's important to remember you're not really screwing the goddess on your screen.

You're in reality fucking your dirty old hand (which you as a guy probably didn't wash after your last bathroom visit), and shooting your load all over your keyboard.
What a romantic. I see why Rosie fell for you......
Brenda Connolly is online now   Reply With Quote
1 User Said Thanks:
1 User Agreed:
Old 10-28-2008, 10:18 PM   #20 (permalink)
Maestra de Sombras
 
IsaDaft Trollop's Avatar
Watches and waits...
 
Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: So. CA
Posts: 1,341
My Mood:
SL Join Date: Feb. 12, 2006
Send a message via Yahoo to IsaDaft Trollop Send a message via Skype™ to IsaDaft Trollop
Quote:
Originally Posted by Ann Launay View Post
And isn't grotesquely oversized.

But seriously, good cyber is more about what's between your ears and your ability to convey those thoughts to your partner than what your avi has between his thighs.
That's why guys have such little "top" heads here...
IsaDaft Trollop is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-28-2008, 10:18 PM   #21 (permalink)
Un United Avatar
 
Brenda Connolly's Avatar
Maybe this year
 
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Jerzee
Posts: 7,631
My Mood:
SLShopper Ads: 2
SL Join Date: Jan 9,2007
Quote:
Originally Posted by Ann Launay View Post
And isn't grotesquely oversized.

But seriously, good cyber is more about what's between your ears and your ability to convey those thoughts to your partner than what your avi has between his thighs.
Get a good cyber going and the animations become almost irrelevant, but I know how the guys go for the visual.
Brenda Connolly is online now   Reply With Quote
Old 10-28-2008, 10:20 PM   #22 (permalink)
Un United Avatar
 
Brenda Connolly's Avatar
Maybe this year
 
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Jerzee
Posts: 7,631
My Mood:
SLShopper Ads: 2
SL Join Date: Jan 9,2007
Quote:
Originally Posted by IsaDaft Trollop View Post
That's why guys have such little "top" heads here...
And usually the top head empties quicker than the bottom head.
Brenda Connolly is online now   Reply With Quote
Old 10-28-2008, 10:22 PM   #23 (permalink)
Senior Member
 
Robert Jung's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 907

Awards: 1
Thread Title of the Week 
thanks everyone. On the U.S. east coast it's time to sleep. I'll check out your suggestions tomorrow.
Robert Jung is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-28-2008, 10:22 PM   #24 (permalink)
Senior Member

SLU Supporter
 
Psyke Phaeton's Avatar
Running 'round in Circle's
 
Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: Australia
Posts: 7,152
My Mood:
SLShopper Ads: 1
SL Join Date: 12-Oct-2003
Blog Entries: 4
Quote:
Originally Posted by Ann Launay View Post
And isn't grotesquely oversized.

But seriously, good cyber is more about what's between your ears and your ability to convey those thoughts to your partner than what your avi has between his thighs.
It pays to listen to those more experienced. Thank you, Ann.
Psyke Phaeton is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-28-2008, 10:25 PM   #25 (permalink)
Neko-licious™

SLU Supporter
 
Ann Launay's Avatar
Swooping...is...bad...
 
Join Date: Aug 2007
Posts: 8,195
My Mood:
SL Join Date: 8/8/06
Blog Entries: 3

Awards: 1
Thread Title of the Week 
Quote:
Originally Posted by Psyke Phaeton View Post
It pays to listen to those more experienced. Thank you, Ann.
lol, I'm not sure how to take that.
Ann Launay is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On