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Old 08-25-2008, 03:03 PM   #76 (permalink)
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Old 08-25-2008, 03:12 PM   #79 (permalink)
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Old 08-25-2008, 03:13 PM   #80 (permalink)
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Old 08-25-2008, 06:12 PM   #81 (permalink)
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I'm not just saying that because I want you to feel better. I'm kind of hungry.
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Old 08-25-2008, 06:20 PM   #83 (permalink)
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Old 08-25-2008, 08:33 PM   #85 (permalink)
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Wow i know this is old...but i just needed to say something...


SL can drain some of us emotionally.....and affect our RL....

See my mood?.....Yeah thats SL...


I feel i made the rookie mistake.....i "attached"....too much...felt it too much...border between SL and Rl blurred..in terms of love feelings....

and now?....check my mood again...because of that i decided to take a break from SL...but SL doesnt leave me alone... I just want to relog...but i know if i relog too soon..it will be worse...for now i am resisting

I am not like those Slusers than use it as a double life...to rp...having 2 loves..a SL and a RL...

For me, due to the fact i am alone during weekdays + plus being uber nerd and yeah low self esteem i might say..a bit...I extended my social life to SL..and since i wanted to be loved too i delivered myself to "love"......and then it became RL........a lot of investment...Voice Chat.....treating each other by rl names...


Well...as fast as light....everything changed and i got the boot...not my fault..not her fault..circumstances fault...

Now i am feeling lower than a door mat...and i am still thinking in going back.......and probably do the same mistakes again....

Time to hit the booze
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Thanks. The ex is giving me grief AGAIN. How many ARs does it take for LL to actually DO anything?
What is the airspeed of a fully laden swallow?
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Old 08-27-2008, 09:39 AM   #88 (permalink)
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Old 08-27-2008, 09:52 AM   #89 (permalink)
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What is the airspeed of a fully laden swallow?
Depends on how much she swallowed.....
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Old 08-27-2008, 09:58 AM   #90 (permalink)
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Wow i know this is old...but i just needed to say something...


SL can drain some of us emotionally.....and affect our RL....

See my mood?.....Yeah thats SL...


I feel i made the rookie mistake.....i "attached"....too much...felt it too much...border between SL and Rl blurred..in terms of love feelings....

and now?....check my mood again...because of that i decided to take a break from SL...but SL doesnt leave me alone... I just want to relog...but i know if i relog too soon..it will be worse...for now i am resisting

I am not like those Slusers than use it as a double life...to rp...having 2 loves..a SL and a RL...

For me, due to the fact i am alone during weekdays + plus being uber nerd and yeah low self esteem i might say..a bit...I extended my social life to SL..and since i wanted to be loved too i delivered myself to "love"......and then it became RL........a lot of investment...Voice Chat.....treating each other by rl names...


Well...as fast as light....everything changed and i got the boot...not my fault..not her fault..circumstances fault...

Now i am feeling lower than a door mat...and i am still thinking in going back.......and probably do the same mistakes again....

Time to hit the booze

Awwww

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Wow i know this is old...but i just needed to say something...


SL can drain some of us emotionally.....and affect our RL....

See my mood?.....Yeah thats SL...


I feel i made the rookie mistake.....i "attached"....too much...felt it too much...border between SL and Rl blurred..in terms of love feelings....

and now?....check my mood again...because of that i decided to take a break from SL...but SL doesnt leave me alone... I just want to relog...but i know if i relog too soon..it will be worse...for now i am resisting

I am not like those Slusers than use it as a double life...to rp...having 2 loves..a SL and a RL...

For me, due to the fact i am alone during weekdays + plus being uber nerd and yeah low self esteem i might say..a bit...I extended my social life to SL..and since i wanted to be loved too i delivered myself to "love"......and then it became RL........a lot of investment...Voice Chat.....treating each other by rl names...


Well...as fast as light....everything changed and i got the boot...not my fault..not her fault..circumstances fault...

Now i am feeling lower than a door mat...and i am still thinking in going back.......and probably do the same mistakes again....

Time to hit the booze

It's hard Al - very hard to do. Just try to persevere.
And try to learn from your mistakes.
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Old 08-27-2008, 10:51 AM   #92 (permalink)
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And try to learn from your mistakes.


Yeah...the problems is for me to learn.... i would need more brain cells........those i have now ain't enough
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Old 09-01-2008, 01:59 AM   #93 (permalink)
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Yeah...the problems is for me to learn.... i would need more brain cells........those i have now ain't enough
I hate to quote Dr Phil but...never invest more than you can afford to loose. Doubly true of second life love.

Not that I can talk mind you. But I find it wise to take a break if it affects my RL mood too much.
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Yeah...the problems is for me to learn.... i would need more brain cells........those i have now ain't enough
extra for you Al.

You don't need more brain cells...just reuse ones that you don't need anyore...like maybe the ones that made you click "Depressed" for a mood.
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Old 09-01-2008, 07:19 PM   #95 (permalink)
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Wow i know this is old...but i just needed to say something...


SL can drain some of us emotionally.....and affect our RL....

See my mood?.....Yeah thats SL...


I feel i made the rookie mistake.....i "attached"....too much...felt it too much...border between SL and Rl blurred..in terms of love feelings....

and now?....check my mood again...because of that i decided to take a break from SL...but SL doesnt leave me alone... I just want to relog...but i know if i relog too soon..it will be worse...for now i am resisting

I am not like those Slusers than use it as a double life...to rp...having 2 loves..a SL and a RL...

For me, due to the fact i am alone during weekdays + plus being uber nerd and yeah low self esteem i might say..a bit...I extended my social life to SL..and since i wanted to be loved too i delivered myself to "love"......and then it became RL........a lot of investment...Voice Chat.....treating each other by rl names...


Well...as fast as light....everything changed and i got the boot...not my fault..not her fault..circumstances fault...

Now i am feeling lower than a door mat...and i am still thinking in going back.......and probably do the same mistakes again....

Time to hit the booze
Been there, done that. We all do that. SL can get to you. I never set out to find love in SL. Quite the opposite. And I can relate to your description of yourself. Nerdy, really lonely. I don't have the perfect situation right now, but I did find love in SL, it reached out to RL, like you said, voice chat, first name.

I think a break from SL might be good right now for you. It was for me. You don't know me, but if you want to chat, talk about it, I'm a good listener, and I've been where you are now.
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Old 09-02-2008, 09:08 AM   #96 (permalink)
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yeah i have experience a mix of emotions in SL i have been playing now for 3 and a half years and somethings i would do differently to avoid it but hey that what happens when you interact with people .... learn from it and move on!
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