| I've spanked a couple of mine, but rarely, and the punishment also has to fit the personality of the kid. One of mine you could spank her, ground her, give her time out, take away her stuff, yell, etc. and nothing works to calm her down except a hug and sympathy. Another one has never been spanked, ever. I just have to use the "warning" tone of voice with her full name, and she's immediately contrite.
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