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Originally Posted by Misty Harley Being a bit more serious, there is a difference between beating/hitting and spanking or using physical punishment with children. At least in text books and laws of the US. You *may* want to distinguish the difference for your question.
And to answer your question; I was abused as a child, therefore I cannot (and learned the hard way as did my children--sadly enough) use physical punishment as a means of parenting. I would think if my parents used spanking like a normal parent (ie: not abusive bruise leaving moments for small things like slamming the front door), I probably would have no issue with it. |
I have an option that hitting softly is OKAY thus distinguishing levels of the hit.