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Originally Posted by Asher Bertrand  But that is exactly what is so foreign to me.
I can't understand how you can be attracted to someone - and then just have it stop because of anatomy. It simply doesn't make sense to me. And perhaps that's why my comments earlier came across as frustrating to you. |
Hey Ash
*throws up hands* I just don't know how else to explain it. An attraction which starts out as attraction to a conversation style, wit, similar life view, etc., that doesn't go away. Of course not.
How many more ways can I say it? I am a
lesbian. I'm not bi-sexual and can go either way. The idea of sexuality of ANY kind, even if it's silly online emoting/pixel bumpin, with someone I know for sure is a RL male,
turns me off. I just don't know how else to say it without verbalizing it in a way that may be offensive. Body parts MATTER.
*heavy sigh*
Previously Posted by IO << To me people aren't just cartoons with a mind, I imagine them as real people if I am intimate with them in that way. And if you are really identified with your orientation, and that is a very individual thing, then yeah, it will be important>>
I think IO says it well, so did Maddie. I just don't know how much better we can explain it.
