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Originally Posted by Mocksoup Graves  I have stuff to say but all of it borders on TMI to divulge.
If it isn't going RL, does it matter? I mean really? And shouldn't you like someone based on their personality and mind rather than if they are an innie or an outie? And if it does go real life, I mean if you aren't attracted to a guy physically, then you aren't...but most SL relationships don't have to cross over into RL like that.
Obviously it is your choice, but again... isn't it our minds that matter? |
When people say things like "isn't it our minds that matter?" it makes me feel shallow. But I'm not shallow; I'm a lesbian. Not bisexual - lesbian.
As I said above, part of the fun for me is imagining that the person on the other end is as excited and happy as I am. And it's just a fact that if I let myself imagine a man in that state ... well, just ew. It's not what I want, and it's not what I'm here for. Game over.
If I'm looking for a friend, yes, it's the mind that matters. But if I'm looking for a lover, the mind alone is not enough. I don't want to do it if I know it's a man at the other end. I just don't.