Originally Posted by Lo Jacobs

This is an unhealthy pattern that many women do seem to fall into. There's a book out there called "He's Just Not That Into You" which, while it has many flaws, has some really good points too (he's not calling? He's not that into you. Move on).

I think the fact is that many people are flawed, not just women, and the reasons that a relationship works or doesn't are too varied to blame it on something as simple as "chicks dig jerks." In fact, it's sort of insulting.