| My current husband is a sweet, non-controlling great guy with a lot of integrity and a fabulous sense of humor. That said; he was also in the marine corps during Vietnam. Being a nice person is not synonymous with being unwilling to do what you believe is right.
My first husband was a mean SOB wearing the shell of a nice, sweet guy. (The first time that my Mom met him she gave me a stuffed wolf wearing a sheeps skin). She saw it right away.
My point I guess is that sometimes we are inexperienced or mesmerized by sexuality and see only what we want to see in a person. That does not mean that we want to be with someone who mistreats us, it just means that at times, things can cloud our better judgement.
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Lady Rose of the Poison Cookies, or at Least the Ex-Lax Chocolate Chips, Royal Cooker of Deadly Feasts Whose Rise To Power was Marked By a Trail of Bloated Corpes, Faces Black, Eyes Bulging, Swollen Fingers Clutching Throats Clogged with Cyanide-Laced Baked Goods. Trout Recreant | Quote: |
We are what we pretend to be so we must be careful what we pretend to be ~ Vonnegut
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