Originally Posted by Lo Jacobs

I don't like this statement, sorry. The myth of the "nice guy"? He doesn't exist. "Nice guys" -- oh, you mean the same ones who hang around and do things for you and listen to you and hug you when you're being sad about some other dude? Those nice guys? You mean the ones who wait and wait and wait and wait and don't understand why this woman never looks at you as a romantic interest when you treat her so, so well? You mean the nice guy who is really only being nice so that maybe, one day, he might be able to sleep with her?

I don't call that nice. I call that manipulative and self-serving.

No well-balanced woman ever broke up with a guy for being "nice".