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Old 12-12-2008, 03:19 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Chip Midnight View Post
As any nice easy going non-controlling accommodating guy can attest, women seem to prefer obnoxious jerks who treat them like shit. In the world of relationships, nice guys really do finish last, generally speaking. When my last girlfriend broke up with me, one of her primary complaints was that I was "too accommodating."
I don't like this statement, sorry. The myth of the "nice guy"? He doesn't exist. "Nice guys" -- oh, you mean the same ones who hang around and do things for you and listen to you and hug you when you're being sad about some other dude? Those nice guys? You mean the ones who wait and wait and wait and wait and don't understand why this woman never looks at you as a romantic interest when you treat her so, so well? You mean the nice guy who is really only being nice so that maybe, one day, he might be able to sleep with her?

I don't call that nice. I call that manipulative and self-serving.

No well-balanced woman ever broke up with a guy for being "nice".
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