I was a latch door kid from 11 or 12 onwards - including looking after my younger brother (8 or 9) for a few hours - there were neighbours who knew who I could call on if I wanted and to be honest it gave me independence and I valued it greatly and still do , My brother probably hated me bossing him around however

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Of course my parents weren't perfect - but I would never have traded them for anyone else.