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Lila · 08-20-2008, 06:03 PM

I had my fair share of emotional ups and downs when I first joined SL. I "fell in love", was heartbroken and had forgotten about them the next day. That was newbie Lila.

When I had been there for longer, I met this guy, a boy really, 21 years old and something about him. I really felt for him something I hadn't felt for anyone before. This wasn't to be in love, it was love. He became the brother I never had.

He had a miserable childhood and I cared about him deeply. When he was down I stayed up with him until the morning, cried with him. Helped him with his increasingly complicated SL relationships. He had a tendency to be involved with more than one girl at the time. And they all knows about it and are lining up to be his second or third girlfriend at the time.

I had to stay on top of every little drama and complication. And it started to involve the rest of his SL family too. I helped them too, talked them through difficulties. Made my life a hell really. Think you can get too much involved in people too. I started to care about his girlfriends too and thought he was mean to them, expecting them to share him. I told them that, and they went straight to him and told him.

I was cut off from most of my SL friends after that. He accused me of being too curious and should stay out of the family's (his SL family) business. I got really upset, but not as upset as I had been the other times when he had done that to me before. Now I hit mute and deleted him and the rest of his SL family. But it still hurt. My SL life changed after that. A lot.

08-20-2008, 06:03 PM	#60 (permalink)
Lila Banned Is tired of being bullied Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 460 My Mood:	I had my fair share of emotional ups and downs when I first joined SL. I "fell in love", was heartbroken and had forgotten about them the next day. That was newbie Lila. When I had been there for longer, I met this guy, a boy really, 21 years old and something about him. I really felt for him something I hadn't felt for anyone before. This wasn't to be in love, it was love. He became the brother I never had. He had a miserable childhood and I cared about him deeply. When he was down I stayed up with him until the morning, cried with him. Helped him with his increasingly complicated SL relationships. He had a tendency to be involved with more than one girl at the time. And they all knows about it and are lining up to be his second or third girlfriend at the time. I had to stay on top of every little drama and complication. And it started to involve the rest of his SL family too. I helped them too, talked them through difficulties. Made my life a hell really. Think you can get too much involved in people too. I started to care about his girlfriends too and thought he was mean to them, expecting them to share him. I told them that, and they went straight to him and told him. I was cut off from most of my SL friends after that. He accused me of being too curious and should stay out of the family's (his SL family) business. I got really upset, but not as upset as I had been the other times when he had done that to me before. Now I hit mute and deleted him and the rest of his SL family. But it still hurt. My SL life changed after that. A lot.