Oh Sooz, from what I have seen on the forums you are a perfectly lovable, interesting woman who just suffers from really low self-confidence. You're not "boring" at all, but if you want people to love you, you first have to love yourself. Yes that sounded really corny, but it is the truth.
I know it's hard, but the fact that guys might get weirded out by your status says more about their own insecurities than it does about you. I think you are plenty lovable
