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Originally Posted by Arilynn  I don't know, Lila. I guess that is my basic question - what is deceptive and what is overly honest? Saying that I don't have the sound on seems deceptive to me, but maybe you are right. I'm not sure. |
It's difficult to say for you since I'm not in your situation, but I know with the 'skeleton in my closet' (I know it's probably not the same thing, since you probably aren't ashamed of being deaf), I can never tell anyone that I'm not absolutely sure they will still love me
when they've heard.
The silly thing is that 9 out of 10 that I've told just say to me: Why were you afraid to say that? But it's person number 10 I'm afraid of.