Arilynn, I second Bilbo's enthusiastic recommendation of the cartel hangout. And also I encourage you to hang in there - when you get asked the same questions over and over you start to develop a way to deal with them. I can't count the number of times I've been asked if I'm Indian in RL (and of course, the follow-up questions of why my avatar has an Indian name, or why I run an Indian-themed place, since I am not Indian). While that's not quite the same as you being asked about music, I can tell you that you will in time come to a comfortable and usually effective way to deal with certain questions.
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Madhu's Cafe - world music coffee house in the sky - is open during renovations, but please pardon our appearance. Relax with your friends, dance with someone special, enjoy the sounds of classic Bollywood and occasional world music parties -
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