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Old 08-06-2008, 06:37 PM   #97 (permalink)
Troy Vogel
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Darkley View Post
just had a mini spat with some girl never met before

bear in mind i was dressed as a penguin, before she repeatedly clicked me so i went eep and took it off

in open chat
[5:04] eva Later: darley wat brengs a bird like you to this dark place
[5:05] eva Later: no lol
[5:05] You: im a vampire penguin of course
[5:05] eva Later: to the penguin
[5:05] Nelliehope Heron: good for you mate.. wanna medal
[5:06] Nelliehope Heron: care factor.. ZERO here

then to im

[5:12] Darkley Aeon: was the 'care' factor comment directed at me?
[5:13] Nelliehope Heron: yup
[5:13] Nelliehope Heron: you look much better now
[5:13] Nelliehope Heron: I'm in a bad mood and really didn't care about someone announcing they are a penguin when you can see clear as day that you were a penguin
[5:13] Nelliehope Heron: freedom of speech
[5:13] Darkley Aeon: i wasnt announcing it, she asked, i stated - i know is obvious
[5:14] Nelliehope Heron: well my apologies i didn't see the person's text who asked you that
[5:15] Nelliehope Heron: all i heard was you saying your a vampire penguin
[5:15] Darkley Aeon: well no, you walked in with an attitude and took a swipe at me, i understand - i was talking to someone who asked what a nice penguin was doing in here
[5:16] Nelliehope Heron: whatever
[5:16] Darkley Aeon: nince comeback
[5:16] Nelliehope Heron: I got issues right now that don't need to be discussed so excuse me while i shop with my man
[5:16] Nelliehope Heron: goodbye now
[5:17] Darkley Aeon: no, you just like to have sly digs at people in the mistaken belief of your intelectual superiority - have fun with your man
Well... you were not out of order but a little out of line... :-)

I find that somehow taking most things said as humor by default is a lot easier to live thru than my original instict which is take everything as an insult.

It takes work but with time you too can do this and live a happier life. The truth is nothing changed in the other person, whereas you got all hurt and upset through the exchange and that's no good. That's a bunch of emotional energy spent the wrong way.

Be good to yourself, ignore weird SL banter... do your thing. :-) *hugs*
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