I'm female in rl and have a female main avvie, and my alt is a girl too. I do put a male shape on my alt when building male jewlery. I have problems wearing a male shape on my main. It just seems wrong for her, to me.
I found, a bit to my surprise in the beginning of my
sl life, that I got emotionally attached to my main avvie very, very quickly.
That's why I spend a Linden fortune trying to make her look pretteh
