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Originally Posted by Dnate Mars  There are plenty of friendships that I have that have nothing to do with sex or even wanting it. There are some, but most people aren't looking for it. Some are, but not everyone. |
I need to find more of the "not everyone".
With the exception of a group of people I met through a very kind woman, all of my friends are guys. One I never hear from. Half are just nice people. And some are becoming weird problems that I am not good at handling.
I am not good at asking people to emotionally step away (I can't think of another way of putting it ) as making people feel bad makes me feel horrible. And usually there has been a string of misunderstandings that went unnoticed by me so the person feels like I lead them along and then betrayed them, not just rejected. Part of it is, I think, a receptive communication problem on my part, part of it is people not hearing what they don't want to hear, and part of it is me being a clueless dork at times.
I guess I need to gather up my guts. I will try to take care of these things before they get messier.
