Cris also showed me this, which I was thinking on my own in particular when that SNL clip was on.
TV with MeeVee: Christian Siriano Succeeds In Normalizing "Tranny" As An Insult
The usage of that word in both his common language and that skit was cringe worthy. But I've commented before on the fact that usually other gay people are worse to transsexuals than any doltish fratboy.