Free, unrestrained and unhindered.

Epictetus wrote in the Enchiridion, “The things in our control are by nature free, unrestrained, unhindered.” We control our own actions, words, opinions, what we like, what we don’t like, and what we want. If we stick to what we control, he suggests, we are free of restraint. It is when we try to influence the things outside our control that we are trapped. It’s good advice. The difficulty is figuring out what we can control. That’s been on my mind a lot. There’s a lot I don’t like happening, but what can I control? I can choose despair or resistance, that’s up to me. I need to focus on what I can do, not what I wish would happen. So even though I feel like kicking more than an exercise bag, I will instead focus my mind and my heart on resisting despair.
This month’s Collabor88 theme is Chic Gym and Purple Poses sure delivered a one-two-kick-punch salvo with their SportTime pose props. I am using the single poses.… Read the rest“the things in our control are by nature free, unhindered, and unobstructed"



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You make me smile with my heart

The LookShape Izzie's Lelutka Simone Bento Shape NEWHead Lelutka Simone Bento Head  Applier Izzie's Lelutka - Applier Daphne caramel NEWHair Mello Sour Candy @ Hairology Sweater Dead Dollz Polar Faux Fur Sweater  @ The Seasons StoryBracelet Kunst Taylor Bracelets @ TLC 

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  sweater O V H .Cassie Sweater .@ Kustom 9 hair little bones cap  members only ( no store landmark for them )    

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igotdressed 2017-01-12 16:24:04

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top/pants [Pumpkin]  @ Kustom 9 bag -ATTIC- Plastic Bags GACHA @ Kustom 9 shoes [VALE KOER] HARLEY SNEAKERHEELS hair [taketomi]_Meisa meshhead .LeLutka.Head.Simone 2.0 skin  [theSkinnery] Silke (LeLutka Applier) nails  e.marie // NAILS

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50% off Sale at EvoLove

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 ○•○WHAT I'M WEARING○•○Hair: Stealthic - Summer Haze @ HairOLogy
Hands: Vista - Bento Pro Hands 
Gloves: Tabou - Asymetric Gloves
Leg Bands: Supernatural - Megan @ Chapter Four
Hand Tattoo: Aurica Store - Alice Tattoo
Ring: Diamante - SideWays Crucifix Rings @ Loft 7
 Headphones: Remarkable Oblivion - Super Bass Rab8 Headphones
 Neck: Indulge Temptation - De'Leashous Choker @ OMG - Oh My Gacha!

Pose:  Made By Me
Guitar: Boildegg - Display Red Music Will Save Us Guitar Gun @ TMD

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Tulip tide lipsticks at TWE12VE!

Tulip tide lipsticks for Poppy skin line, shown on Catwa mesh head Tulip tide lipsticks! A cute addition to Poppy skin line, glossy pink shades, available at TWE12VE January round. The lipsticks are available as Omega appliers which works for the most popular mesh heads. Please try a demo, the lipsticks are especially designed to work with Poppy skin line and has been tested on Catwa head. This is the first release of many more to come and it is a special version only for TWE12VE – grab it now before it’s gone! Teleport in Second Life: Have fun!

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Twe12ve Gets Fresh!

Twe12ve is back with a fresh new round! Hot styles with clean colors, sexy makeup, gorgeous home and garden items, and so much more await you! Hurry over before it ends on January 30th! Indigo Teleport to Twe12ve < ——–CLICK HERE TO SEE THE GALLERY——– >

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My favourite waste(land) of time, super bargain.

As it happens I wasn’t looking for a bike and I was just going to scroll past but when I noticed only “21 prims” and “10Lds” that grabbed my attention. Pretty darn low prim and I know that even though there has been a prim increase for land owners for those who rent this prim increase may not have been handed down to them so they still have to prim check everything. A bit of a close-up so you can see pretty good details for those prims.  Of course, it’s ridable with a standard menu.  I should have actually stood beside it to show off that this is a damn good size for a woman/small AV but of course that doesn’t mean a man sized AV wouldn’t fit it’s unisex but basically if you’ve struggled to find one for your smaller AV then try this one.  At only 10Lds it’s worth the risk.  I bought this from the Marketplace but I’ve spotted that there is an inworld demo for you to try. When I grab a bike I always end up at “The Wastelands”.… Read the restxxxbike2use

Toot Toot, Lesson 101.

On 12th January 2017 · By zanbeck · With No comments
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Go to the gym they said, you will lose weight they said, you will feel fitter and better they said and they LIE!  I’ve managed to pull something in my shoulder which the Doctor gave me a long fancy assed name for but I translated it to “you’ve knacked your shoulder”.  TBH it’s not much of an issue but I’m a bit sick of the grinding ache.  Never mind I’m back home and taking the rest of the day off and slouching in my fat pants and treating myself to a slice of chocolate cheesecake. This isn’t a normal post because I got a really brill lesson off one of our readers.  The reason I don’t give people’s names in I don’t know if they’re ok with it but people who send us gifties, check out my little toot toot car lol, or show me where the hunt item is or drop me a note about something special they have found in SL that I might be interested in etc all know who they are and a big fat wet sloppy French kiss to them.… Read the restxxxcaruse

Are you a “Bad influence” ?

Lovely to see Neve at a few events lately – this time they are in Mesh Body Addicts with a gorgeous frock called “Bad Influence”. Each pack you get four colour options to play with, and there are various packs to choose from, neutral, lively etc – I went with the plaid versions as I’m a BIG plaid fan! I thought Id show you two out of the pack just so you could see what different looks you can get in one box. So above I wear the delicate creamy and light blue plaid, very dainty & feminine no? The Hud has the ability to turn materials on and off – if you look closely you can see how sheer the layers of the skirt are. Next I’m wearing the red and black tones from the same box – much more wintry. Teamed with a lush fur scarf from Luas (four colours for $150L!) and also the new hair-do from kokolores called “maddie” that I blogged the other day. Check out the skirt layers again – see how see through they are?… Read the restneve-mesh-body-addicts-plaid-pack

Oh My Gacha!

Its that time again gacha addicts! Oh My Gacha will around the grid until the 26th, with more then 100+ designers for your enjoyment plus they have it super well decorated and in full winter mode! So make sure to bring a coat with you. Atiya, Cherries, Indigo and Ginger <3 Teleport to Oh My Gacha! MIA: Diamante < ——–CLICK HERE TO SEE THE GALLERY!——– > 

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All I Need is Coffee and Mascara

        Azuchi is at Mesh Body Addicts with this great mini-skirt and leather jacket. The materials texture on the jacket is beautiful. You really need to see it in the game though- pictures never do materials justice. You get the dress with the saying "All I Need is Coffee and Mascara" or without. Essenz just released these thigh high boots with corset lace up details in the back at the current round of The Season's Story. Truth also recently sent out his January VIP group gift hair and you actually get two hairstyles FREE- this shoulder length style and another super short pixie cut. If you still have not joined the in world SL group, you need to make sure you do so you don't continue to miss out on all this great free hair we are getting every month!

Dress: [Azuchi] Sophia Dress Black Logo *maitreya* @ Mesh Body Addicts January
Jacket: [Azuchi] Sophia Jacket Open White *maitreya* @ Mesh Body Addicts January
Boots: Essenz - New York (Maitreya) @ The Season's Story
Hair: TRUTH  Kati *FREE Group Gift*/ Teleport
Cup: BUENO - Coco Cup- Might be Wine
Head: CATWA  Destiny
Body: Maitreya Mesh Body - Lara
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Blueberry released an update for the Cake Leggings. The add on hud has 55+ additional patterns. Stop by the main store for the update. My boots are also new from Blueberry and are at Collabor88. There are several color change options for these boots. I love the RAMA selfie backgrounds. You can have a nice … Continue reading Boutique-ful

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hair-[Mello] Fuzzies Gacha @Gacha Guardians ((NEW))headband with ears & mouth pin-*{( konpeitou )}* ichigo-usagi  @TSS ((NEW))scarf-[Cubic Cherry] {Maru} scarves @TSS ((NEW))
tattoo-**UrbanStreet** Hope Tattoo @suicide dollz ((NEW))
dress & shoes-Luas Susanne Gacha @OMG ((NEW))

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Jewellery & Accessories hunt Blogger applications are open!

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Kiss of the dragon / Le baiser du dragon

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Akeruka Lara Bento Mesh Head

Akeruka has probably released the most amount of bento heads to the grid now, with 5 male mesh heads and over 10 female mesh heads. I have blogged quite a number of them already, which you can find in my Akeruka tag on my blog. Yesterday Akeruka released Lara, which is the latest edition to […] The post Akeruka Lara Bento Mesh Head by Strawberry Singh appeared first on

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  Body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V3.5 Mesh head: CATWA HEAD Catya v1.05 Head/Skin Applier: DeeTaleZ *Appliers* for CATWA Heads *Face Michelle* EUROPEAN Eyes: .ARISE. Beena Eyes / Cloud Catwa Applier @ The Chapter Four Eyelashes: .euphoric ~ Eyeshadow&Lashes  Eftandise Series ~[Catwa] Beauty Mark: DeeTaleZ Mesh BEAUTY MOLE Piercings: [CX] Bento Piercing Labret – Silver ( Catwa ) @ The Seasons Story
[CX] Bento Piercing Medusa – Silver ( Catwa ) @ The Seasons Story
[CX] Bento Piercing Snakebites – Silver ( Catwa ) @ The Seasons Story Hair&Beret: [KoKoLoReS] Hair – Jo @ The Seasons Story Sweater&cardigan: :: MOMOCHUU :: The Season – knit Outfit [Pastel]MT Ultra Rare @ The Seasons Story Leggings: Blueberry – Minerva Joggers – Maitreya @ Collabor88 Sneakers: Baiastice_Starlight Sneakers-Glitter Silver-Maitreya @ Collabor88 Poses: XXY – Dawn time Pack @ The Chapter Four Background Set: Trompe Loeil – Camden Cove @ Collabor88
ionic : Northern Life @ The Chapter Four    
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igotdressed 2017-01-11 08:57:35

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hair taketomi – Kaede  ( multistyle ) NEW sweater/hat DAMI HELLO FRIDAY GACHA @ TheSeasonStory leggings  erratic / maeve – leggings @ Collabor88 shoes .Shi : Centurion [ALL . TMP / Isis / Maitreya] bag  .Shi :: Leather Grained Tote [Black] RARE backdrop  ::no13::Factory shutter (18LI@ The Mens Dept nails e.marie // NAILS Matte – Nudes cup #Foxy Tumblers skin Bold & Beauty :: Liu (Catwa Applier) – Medium. meshhead  CATWA HEAD Catya  

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