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“There is more than one kind of freedom…Freedom to and freedom from…”

I’m writing to you #NastyWoman. After the last and final presidential debate, I felt that spark.  I’ll probably write a long and rambling post about that moment of enlightenment. Apologies in advance. I’m wearing:
Dress: PurpleMoon Creations Velvet Dress for Maitreya @ Designer Showcase (October)
Hair: Exile Wherever I Go
Rings: Moondance Boutique Venom Marquise Cluster Ring and Venom Tear Cluster Ring @ Designer Showcase (October)
Necklace: Yiver Twila Open Collar
Body Parts: Maitreya Mesh Body Lara and LAQ Mesh Head Trinity Sunshine is wearing:
Dress: PurpleMoon Creations Velvet Dress for Maitreya @ Designer Showcase (October)
Hair: *~*Damselfly*~*Jestina @ Hairology
Necklace: RYCA Choker LSG Gold
Body Parts: LeLutka Head Stella and Maitreya Body Lara Pose: Focus Poses Friends Pose 24 Post title pinched from The Handmaid’s Tale 

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October 2016
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“Your hand is all I have to keep me hanging on”

The emotion is real, but the photo below isn’t reality. If it was real, I (Lisa Laylah) would be eye level with my husband (Kevin TacoLover). And the little cream chihuahua (Annabelle) would be loudly playfully barking in the tan chihuahua’s face (Loki). Image Essentials’ “Love Everlasting” couple poses are the first of three in Kay Weston’s series and available at Designer Showcase for 150L apiece. The poses are modifiable so had I decided to take my real life height into Second Life, I would be eye to eye with Taco. But, I’m short all real life day long, so I want to be an amazon in SL! Seriously, this set is really sweet. I love all poses, but sometimes I just want sweet, tender couple poses in SL that represent the vulnerability and faith real life relationships often have. @TacoKevin, I’m sorry I forgot to mention my new shoes. If it helps, they are part of my upcoming birthday plan. @Reader, if you made it this far, thanks for listening..… Read the restyour-hand-is-all-i-have-to-keep-me-hanging-on

“The Boulevard of Broken Dreams: I beg to dream and differ from the hollow lies…”

So I’m reading clips from the first presidential debate, and it’s scary. Typically, I vote Democrat, but I am not opposed to voting outside of my selected party. Considering I’m not well versed in politics, I’m not trying to start a fight, but oh my gosh…if one was going strictly by that debate, America only has one reasonable choice, and that’s the scary part. When I first heard of Donald Trump’s plans to run for president, I told my hubby we had to get ready to vote for either Hilary Clinton or Trump in the end. Seriously, lol, I thought there was a secret campaign in that there was no campaign. Instead, Trump would be a hot mess, and there was no other choice but to vote Clinton, but the government was in on it. I know social media is a mainstay, so I can appreciate candidates using it as a platform, but damn, can you imagine if Trump was president and one of his Twitter wars led to World War III? Okay, that probably wouldn’t happen lol, but who knows anymore.… Read the restboulevard-of-broken-dreams

How to learn from experience II: “You look like my next mistake.”

Keep moving. Or do what I do and stick to the same pattern! Actually, it’s what I used to do. I wrote about Taylor Swift (TS) songs and one of my first heartbreaks in my last post, so I figured why stop now? Before I married the real love of my life, I dated. Some dates were casual and some turned into relationships like my two CKs. The two CKs in my life were very different, but they also had something in common. I went shopping all the time. Okay, that’s not the commonality, but I did shop a lot in those days lol. I was married to one CK. Think of TS’s song “Style.” That was us. Off and on and really (no really) bad for one another. As for the other CK, I can’t think of a TS song that represents that relationship. Maybe “I knew you were trouble?”  I was going through a really rough patch (divorce from the first CK and a legal thing), so the song doesn’t really describe all of my emotions. It’s probably more accurate to say it was TS’s monologue before the video starts.… Read the restYou look like my next mistake.png

How to learn from experience:”All [he] had to do was stay…”

This is a continuation of an earlier post.  My boss walked into my office in the middle of a Taylor Swift binge, so I shared why I appreciate her lyrics. I’m not sure he bought it, but I let him know that some of my favorite Swift songs have described some of my deepest and painful heartbreaks. Suddenly, I remembered heartbreak may be a natural occurrence. In an earlier blog, I wanted to save my younger co-workers from heartbreak, but that’s not possible. They need it. I had it, and my breakups were tragic at the time.  Fast forward > I ended up with my hubby aka love of my life. Really, I think I needed to experience love lost because I don’t think it would have worked had I met my hubby earlier. In a breakup, the tunnel seems bleak, but there really is light at the end. Of course, we can’t see it until we reach the end. The inspiration for this post was Swift’s song “All you had to do was stay.” It reminds me of my first heartbreak.… Read the resthow-to-learn-from-experience

“Welcome to the room of people / Who have rooms of people that they loved one day…”

And this is what happens when my husband does not allow our pups in his gaming room. Lol, kidding. I didn’t lock him in that room.  ;) I’m wearing
Outfit: AnaMarkova Zendra in Lovely for Maitreya @Designer Showcase September 2016 Round
Shoes: *katat0nik* (red / LT) Strap Boot and *katat0nik* (white / RT) Strap Boot (Rare) @The Arcade September 2016
Hair: Runaway Harley
Body Parts: LeLutka.Mesh Head-Simone, Maitreya Body Lara, Slink Avatar Hands Relaxed and Mouse
Prop: MadPea Why So Mad? – Barbie (June 2016 Arcade Item)
Pose: Focus Poses. Friends 15 Sunshine is wearing
Outfit: AnaMarkova Zendra in Therapy for Maitreya @Designer Showcase September 2016 Round
Shoes: *katat0nik* (black / LT) D-Ring Boot (Rare) @The Arcade September 2016
Hair: TuKinoWaguma Tapia @Hairology
Body Parts: LeLutka. Head Stella and Maitreya Body Lara Post title pinched from

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I wonder if my hubby would go for a Pokémon Halloween theme this year. I’ll be Pikachu, of course, and he can be the Pokéball. Or, he can be my trainer and just toss balls at me. That sounds slightly dirty, but, hey, I am married y’all. You see, I got sucked into Pokémon Go, and I really don’t know why.  I never played Pokémon. I knew of certain characters but that is only because Pikachu is so cute! So, I have become that person who pretends she’s engrossed in her phone due to a text, email, or news breaking story when I really just have Pokémon Go in the background. I paint a pretty convincing picture eh? I’m wearing Outfit: #bubbles Blayke Pearl Blush Sheer Top + Black Print Skirt [Maitreya] or click here for Marketplace
Hair: Exile::Cold @The Arcade September
Body Parts: Body parts: Laq Trinity and Maitreya Lara
Jewelry: Chop Zuey San Guerlian Cameo Pearl Choker A
Shoes: Pure Poison – Artisan Cloud Flat Sandals – Maitreya
Prop: REIGN.- Glitter Posh Phone- #17 @The Arcade September
Pose: [KoKoLoReS] Lazin’ pose 002
Location: LaPerla

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The show must go on…

While many hard-working peeps are celebrating Labor Day, I am mourning the unofficial end of summer. Before too long, the sun will set much earlier and I’ll have to pull my sun lamp out of storage. Las Vegas does not get terribly cold, but the sun sets around 4:30 PM and that is just too early for my taste and for my moods. I think Blac Label Boutique feels my pain and can’t embrace the Fall season just yet. Blac Quartz has an exclusive piece for Designer Showcase’s September round. It’s called Savage and is business up front and party in the back. So, if you can’t let go of summer quite yet, be a savage and hold on to the sun as long as you can. I’m wearing Outfit: Blac Label Boutique Savage Halter Blush and Savage Skort Almond @Designer Showcase 
Shoes: Momento. ballet flats Maitreya beige (Gacha Item)
Hair:*Argrace* Mayu
Ring: (Yummy) Carolyn Crown – Diamond @The Arcade September
Body parts: Laq Trinity and Maitreya Lara
Poses:**Manifeste** – Model_616 and oOo city five Location: Paris Je T’aime

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“Who knows why it’s gotta be this way”

Trying to understand the bigger picture is harder than it seems. In the past, I got so focused, I could only see what was in front of me, so I missed what I needed to see. Okay, I also ignored what I needed to see too lol. The mind can be so convenient at times. Right now, my mind is on top of it because I am getting better at seeing the whole picture. And right now, I understand that I was pretty much an idiot when I was younger, so I can’t blame my young employees for making the same mistakes I did. I wish I could save them. But such is life eh? I’m wearing Outfit: PurpleMoon Creations Still Latex Dress for Maitreya @ Fetish Fair 2016 (open for one more day due to popular demand)
Heels: [Ketamine] Fetish Shoes for Slink @ Fetish Fair 2016 (open for one more day due to popular demand)
Earrings::Dressed By Lexi:: Mystique
Earrings: Ben’s Beauty and Boutique– Polly Earrings
Ring: REIGN.- SAY IT! Knuckle Rings- Diva (previous Arcade item)
Hair: Rezology Silent Lips w/ Lusterlight
Body parts: LAQ Head Trinity, Maitreya Body Lara, and Slink Feet High
Poses: Glitter Poses Model 1 and 5
Location: Radio Geko Post title pinched from “This is what you came for

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One (1) More Day to go Around the World

Sascha’s Designs has an exclusive piece at Swank’s “Around the World” August round, and it is a symphony of brilliant colors and patterns. It actually has a shoulder decoration as well, but I opted to go strapless because I love the dainty ruffles around the bust. Now, since you only have one more day to go around the world, you better get hopping. Click here for your private jet. I’m wearing Outfit: Sascha’s Designs – Calpurnia Caracas @ Swank (Round ends 8/31)
Earrings: Baubles! by Phe Mina Earrings (Designer Showcase August)
Hair: Vanity Hair:La Espanola
Brain: LAQ Trinity
Skin: *Birth* Opal Skin (LAQ Applier for Gacha Guardians)
Pose 1: Glitter Poses Model Runway 4
Pose 2: *agapee*-gown326-1
Location: Astralia

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“Remember that there’s someone there whose heart is always true…”

So hubby, “I’ll always be the man in love with you.” Um..woman. You know what I mean. Readers, you probably do not, so let me take you back to Christmas 2015. In 2015, my husband and I celebrated our first Christmas as a married couple so I was on the lookout for cutesy commemoration gifts to throw under the tree. Hobby Lobby had the cutest mugs in the checkout aisle that read “I heart my husband” and “I heart my wife.” Initially, I grabbed the heart wife mug for a gift, but I rethought that decision while standing in line. It was almost Christmas so that line was long. I decided it was too presumptuous to expect my hubby to drink out of a mug that proclaimed he loved his wife. After all, since it was a gift, I should demonstrate my love for my husband right? So, I purchased the “I heart my husband” mug as a gift for my new hubby. On the drive home, I pictured my husband drinking from that mug. It wasn’t what I imagined lol, so my mug purchase has been a running joke ever since.… Read the restRemember that there's someone there whose heart is always true

Oops, I did it again: A Prozac Stipulation

Have you ever felt like you won the battle? I have. Have you ever realized that the battle only exists in your head? The odds must be in my favor because, again, I have. Though, I should warn you. Winning a battle that was basically created in your head is satisfying, but a lonely experience if you need attention. Prozac does not solve everything. You see my problem is this
I’m dreaming away
Wishing that heroes, they truly exist
I cry, watching the days
Can’t you see I’m a fool in so many ways[?] Yep, I’m a fool in that I want a hero (aka my hubby) to save me because I know at the end of the day, I have to save myself. Since I am the one who makes up my battles, it’s only fair, right? I’m wearing:
Outfit: Finale Couture Acadia  – Exclusive Bali Blue @ Designer Showcase
Shoes: Finale Couture Acadia Heels – Bali Blue @ Designer Showcase
Jewelry:  Finale Couture Acadia Heels – Bali Blue @ Designer Showcase
Brain: Laqroki Trinity
Hair: Vanity Hair:All About It Sunshine is wearing:
Outfit: Finale Couture Harper in Lemon
Brain: Lelutka Stella
Shoes: Pure Poison – Isahara Sandals @ Collabor88
Hair: Vanity Hair:Garota @ Hairology Pose 1: Purple Poses Friends 144
Poses 2: Label Motion Bunny 4 (Sunshine) **Manifeste** – Editorial_29 (me)
Background: Exposeur & The Loft – Room of Balloons Post title’s inspiration and quote pinched from Britney Spears (edited because the original YouTube clip I included (Read more...)

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The danger of drifting: “Go away from me [and] leave me alone.”

This is what happens when I listen to 90’s music all night long. Total angst. Surely, I’m not the only one this happens to…right? I’ll have to test my hubby tomorrow. Stay tuned for results! Actually, he’ll never go for that. When he drifts, he listens to old country, and I can’t go for that lol. At least we have nothing but time, and when you think about it, time is everything. Credits: Top: FurtaCor*Isa Fringe Top @ Designer Showcase
Bottom: Maitreya High Waisted Shorts Torn for Lara @ Mesh Body Addicts Fair
Shoes: Empire – Tritonia – Maitreya @ Mesh Body Addicts Fair
Purse: *YS&YS* Viareggio Bag Weave
Glasses: RYCA Jewelry
Hair: Truth Opal
Brain: LAQ ~ Mesh Head Trinity 1.0
Poses: KoKoLoReS Lazin’ pose 002 and Manifeste Model 708
Location: Baja Sands Post title inspired and pinched from (yeah I used this song before…but what can I say? <3)    

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“Please leave me stranded, it’s so romantic…”

Sorry hubby. I’m in love with San Guerlian, but don’t worry. It’s a platonic love. Chop Zuey Couture Jewelry is a beautiful addition to Designer Showcase’s August round, and Belle Roussel has a very special edition of the San Guerlian Cameo Set available just for you. Do you feel the love now? The set includes earrings, bracelets, a brooch, and 5 mixed cameo, pearl, and gemstone choker and necklaces you can layer on for a multi-strand look or just wear each piece individually. That’s a lot of jewelry for a special 50% off price  and the pearls, gems, metals, and Cameo are texture and color change. Ooh, it’s so romantic! Want a lift? Click Designer Showcase for your ride. Credits:
Jewelry: Chop Zuey – San Guerlian Cameo Choker and Pearl Choker A, B, C, and D @ Designer Showcase (Thank you Belle!)
Outfit: C’est la vie ! Colette dress (turquoise) for Maitreya
Hair: D!va Hair “Peony” (Citrine)
Purse:=Z=timeless Bag (Leather and a gacha item)
Shoes: Lindy Delanna Nude
SL Brain: LAQ ~ Mesh Head Trinity 1.0
Pose 1: Glitter Poses Basic Model 1a
Pose 2: Glitter Poses Model Runway 3 – 5 Post title pinched from

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“Saying ‘Wake up, you need to make money.’

Does the night before Monday always suck? Laylah in blue is wearing: FurtaCor*Liah Bodysuit (check out the variety!) for Maitreya @ Designer Showcase
DMZ – Maitreya nails Summersby (Delicious!) @ Designer Showcase
Analog Dog Hair – iota
LAQ ~ Mesh Head Trinity 1.0
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V3.5 Laylah in yellow is wearing: FurtaCor*Liah Bodysuit (See above for the variety!) @ Designer Showcase
DMZ – Maitreya nails Summersby (See above for your flavor) @ Designer Showcase
Insatiable Skins by Jharis (ISBJ) Tammy Shape and Skin @ Designer Showcase
Exile Hair – If you’re wild @ Collabor88
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V3.5 Poses:
{.:exposeur:.} Sunny Afternoon
{.:exposeur:.} This Is What Makes Us Girls Props:
Anchor Towel Hers in Gray (Former Arcade Gacha Item)
Anchor Towel His in White (Former Arcade Gacha Item)
AITUI – Beach Bag – Golden Sunset   (Former Arcade Gacha Item) Post title pinched from

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“Lay me down in sheets of linen / You had a busy day today”

I was thinking it’s been quite some time since I’ve written a moody post, but I checked and, of course, I was wrong. My posts are all about moods! I’ve been in a strange mood lately. It’s not strange to me, but I’m trying to express it in other ways. Unfortunately, it is not working as well as I expected because I feel like I’m an empty shell and just drifting through the day. Subsequently, I needed to get more than a few things off my chest. Instead of writing tons, I’ll just make a list. It’s in no particular order.
  1. I’m so disappointed in humanity lately that I fear the future.
  2. One of my dogs is afraid of fireworks and I wish I could help her.
  3. I want a challenge, but I don’t want to try anything new.
  4. All lives matter.
  5. I’m trying to get excited about opening a restaurant one day (long story but short insert for hubby’s benefit); however, I hate cooking and trying or inventing recipes, so I’m not sure what I’ll do.
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“Just own the night like the 4th of July”

Franklin D. Roosevelt once said:“In the truest sense, freedom cannot be bestowed; it must be achieved.” I couldn’t agree more. Happy Fourth of July! May you celebrate in style. =) Sascha’s Designs Purr in USA (Buy a Gown for 500L and get USA Purr for free!)
Real Evil Industries Lux Pearl drop Necklace
.LeLutka.Mesh Head-Simone
DeeTaleZ *Mesh* Freckles Layer
little bones. Yuno (Collabor88)
Boudoir Fourth of July Pinwheels (Gacha Item)
The Big Black Sky pose by Flutter Memel
Mini Fireworks Display from Basic Elements (Free!) Purr in USA
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“Just like fire…If I can light the world up for just one day”

If you aren’t into the Zodiac, you’ll probably moan and groan after my next statement. I love that I’m a Sagittarius! It’s a fire sign, of course! Whenever I am uncooperative (restless, unrealistic, superficial, or lose my verbal filter), I play the Sagittarius card. I used to own the best book called Darkside Zodiac. I traded it for Frida Kahlo’s autobiography, and I don’t know why. I was going to replace my old book, but I just found out there’s a new edition. Since it’s called Blame Your Planet: A Wicked Astrological Tour Through the Darkside of the Zodiac, it sounds like it’s right up my alley. I’m wearing
Glitter Nerea Blouse and Skirt mesh Lace Red Fiesta @ Swank (June)
Pose:  Glitter Poses Back 3 Serie 1 Sunshine is wearing
Glitter Red Passion Group Gift
Pose: Label Motion Gemma Location: Pelican Point
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“Way up in the west hills” (not really, but it’s even better)

We finally settled in our new place. I swear, the older I get, the more moving physically hurts! This time, the hurt is worth it. I love our new home. I’m plotting how to decorate the place and make it a home as I type. Since I feel fancy, I decided to dress like high society as I plan. Styles by Danielle’s Monique is a succulent blend of satin, cashmere, and floral design that comes in shimmering and non-shimmering. I like to sparkle. Who doesn’t? It doesn’t matter if you like to literally sparkle on the outside or exude a sparkly attitude because both are beautiful. Monique in shimmering beige is a group gift, so now there’s no excuse to not sparkle on the outside. Dani Plassitz’s June group gift is the perfect combination of chic sparkles and Summer. There’s a small enrollment fee (200L) to join Styles by Danielle’s group, but all group members receive exclusive monthly gifts (see above ), a 30% discount on new releases, and tons of other on the spot group gifts and discounts. … Read the restMonique by Styles by Danielle

If you aren’t me, how do you know how I feel?

If this were real life, I would be screaming. I can only handle butterflies in SL. As beautiful as many believe they are, butterflies scare me. Relationships used to scare me too. I always felt like I loved too much and scared people off. While Twittersphere debates the authenticity of Taylor Swift and Tom Hiddleston’s relationship, I felt compelled to say who cares. Let the girl get over her former relationship however she wants. I told my hubby that Swift’s lyrics, from many of her songs, were so relatable because I remember that longing and that hurt that came with every love lost. I recall one breakup where I tried to replace the man that I loved. A male friend came over and tried to get with me, but before anything happened, I tearfully told him I couldn’t because my former boyfriend was on my mind. When I see pictures of Swift and Hiddleston on the beach, one picture reminds me of my former emotion because I think Swift’s sad and Hiddleston is taking the moment. … Read the restLet go